He makes me want to stab him at times...

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First of all I must tell you I am happily married to my hubby of 5 years - together 11 years, with 2 little boys of 2 and 3, a beautiful big home in a sought after area, okay income, nice car, all is pretty good. Last Sunday we brought home our two new puppies. He brought up the subject and between us came to the conclusion of getting two for many reasons but his big thing in all of this was that it would be good for him to have a purpose for getting up in a morning. I looked at that from two points of view:- 1. Hello, you have a wife and two kids whose day start at 7am and end at 6.30pm, surely that is enough reason to get up already 2. Ok, great, he intends to take some of the responsibility if we get them so lets do it. So...they come home Sunday, he goes to work Monday, comes home Friday. Has a two hour bath, has his dinner then spends an hour and a half on the phone to a mate he works with because he couldn't come with his wife and kids over the weekend. I fell asleep on the couch so went to bed. Saturday I worked then kept the kids out of the way whilst he worked on the house with my Dad. Put the kids to bed, then he went to friends of ours to pick some bits up but was gone 2 hours. Then today he slept in til 12 midday, came outside did some more jobs on the house, we actually got to sit together and eat as a family then another mate of his with his little boy turned up to see the dogs. I can't stand when people sit there and watch you eat. I was stood in the garden hanging washing out and he wanders off chatting to his mate not watching the kids or dogs and the dogs decide to find a shard of glass that they've dug up. He's shouting me and pointing at them to do something when he's stood next to them so I sounded like a banshee when I shouted well you're stood there staring like a moron!!! The kids went to bed an hour and a half late which is a nightmare. Then here's the clincher, he stomps in and says "Well I'm not happy. I might as well be a single man for the amount I've seen you this weekend". I wanted to deck him there and then!!! I told him it was all his own doing and that I've felt like that all weekend but out of respect not whinged at him and he walked off doing a sarcastic "Yeah yeah". B*&(ard face!!!! Do you ever have moments like this and how do you handle it?