If your lover don t love you any more, you will stop loving him too?

I think if my lover doesn't live me anymore, I would feel sad at the moment more than anything... I wouldn't say I won't love him back because it is not like a game... but I'm sure I would get very emotional if it was real becaus eI love my lover so much, I don't think I could live without him for the rest in my life.

Love isn't something that can be influenced. It's a feeling and emotion. Not a choice. You can't help who you love and don't love. And just because someone loves you with everything they have, you may never love them at all. Your heart chooses who it wants regardless of who loves you or doesn't love you back.

I think that it is one's heart that chooses its true love. If one was in a loving relationship with someone and one or the other finds that it is not 'love' after all, then there is, I think, no way back. Very, very occasionally, the (real) love that exists between you may agree to part and to stay on amicable terms. Most often, when one decides that there should be an end to it, then nothing can be repaired or brought back to the way it was. If one is talking about a relationship which hasn't happened yet and where one person is giving love but the other has not reached that point, then there is some hope. What St Paul said about charity (love) is very true: "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres." The important thing about this passage - what it is really saying - is that real love is selfless. It neither counts itself as nothing nor thinks that its love should be desirable to the object. It is pure giving simply because it has to do that - not because it needs or wants to and not really because it sees a need or a want in the other person. True love simply exists because it IS. Yes, sometimes, it can soften one's heart when someone shows one love and that can, I believe, grow into a love returned (or at least a very deep and lasting and intimate friendship which could mean a life partnership) but it is no use (as the lover) hoping for that because only the true selflessness will really have any effect - any hope that love will be returned will be perceived as false love and is likely either to be rejected or taken advantage of.

Love is not an emotion, it is a way of life, a choice. If my partner told me he didn't love me anymore and wanted to be free, it would hurt very much, but because I loved him, I would let him go. You can't make someone love you-that would be manipulation, not really love...if you're doing things to make them love you. When i am in love, I always have "butterflies" when I'm with that person.

hello icesmile,we cant dictate whom we want to love right? we just feel it and then we can say "im in love".well,love is full of mystery and is soo complicated to explain and sometimes hard to understand the real meaning :).regarding your discussion,hhmmm..if my man stop loving me,well its soo painful and the pain is unbearable actually.but that doesnt mean i will stop loving him,instead i will make some move to win him back and do some effort to make him love me again,that if i really really love the guy :).if ever he wont love me again despite of what i have done for him(all things) thats maybe the time that i will stop loving him.discouragement sometimes makes the love to just simply fade away...:) good day!

well, it depends on the situation. if the other person is someone whom you interact with daily and he shows a lot of love, it can definitely influence you. on the other hand, if he someone who doesn't interact much with you, then he may not necesarrily create such an impact.

If the one I loved stopped loving me, there would be no point in continuing to love him, because my love for him would be totally wasted. The best thing to do in a case like that would be to move on, and start loving someone who would love me in return. No reason to waste love on someone who does not deeserve it.

personally i wouldn't love a guy who made many many moving things for me.i would stop him at first and tell him that i hope him dont waste him time or energy on me.the reason why i would do like this is very simple that i would be moved for a while but not a whole life.so the guy i will fall in love or live with me for a whole life must be a guy who i love sincerely and heart to heart.i would feel content with him who dont have to do anything.so actually my hubby is the guy.

No If my lover wanted to stop making love, I would ask why? And from there I would make my decision.. I am not saying that I would not love him any less.. It would be out of character for him, and I would want to know what changed... I would not leave him just because of that.. If you love someone and they do not want to give back the same amount of love or affection towards you.. well you can show them how much you care, but you can not make some one love you... Loving someone is a personal choice.. Yes people say love sways you one way or another but true love is a choice.. Love can not be forced upon someone... If it is, that is not love, its abuse... And no one should have to put up with abuse.. Butterflies in my stomach, yes I get that feeling every time he comes home.. He is a trucker.. So I do not get to see him that much or that often.. about once a month for 3 or 4 days.. if I am lucky.. So that new love kind of feeling happens every time he walks in the door..

Without love,I will leave,if I still love him,The love will be hided in my heart.I will love him secretly,till I forget him.It is hurt to love sb but not win his love

It is difficult to make me fall in love with him , if I don,t like him , eventhough he loves me a lot, since i will not give him opportunity to acess me , nor know me. If we narrly get along with each other, it is nearly for me to fall in love with him. once there are two guys who said they love me very much, the one who i refused has better conditions , i have tried to accept him , but i can't make myself to have any feeling for him, no matter what he have done or said to me. the other one may don't have the same family background ,or earnings, ,i choose him since i love him , i have better feelings when we stay together.