Do you hate youself?

@figjam00 (1445)
India
July 2, 2009 4:35am CST
Whenever I make some mistakes I just criticize myself a lot. And after that I realize that sub consciously I'm hating myself. I think I am getting used to this thing. What about you guys, are you in war with yourself?
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7 responses
@ckyera (17332)
• Philippines
2 Jul 09
no, i never hate myself, even if i do something silly, still i never hate myself...sometimes i get disappointed but never to hate myself coz if i do, who would love me?
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• India
2 Jul 09
Most of the time when i do mistakes and i new i am going to do wrong still i have got into it..I hate myself a lot when i miss my bus for not waing up early etc there are many instances where i hate myself most of the time.
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@dodo19 (47082)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
2 Jul 09
When I make a mistake, I criticize myself, as well. I don't necessarily hate myself, but I can easily say that it annoys me, it bugs me. However, I really do try not to let it bug me as much as it has in the past. I'm working on this, and I feel that I'm getting better. I feel that, when I make a mistake, I'm getting better at not criticizing myself as much.
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@nympha687 (940)
• United States
2 Jul 09
I love myself though sometimes I hate it because of some stupid mistakes but the hate doesn't last long. I have to be at peace with myself if I want to move forward.
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@andiel (117)
• Malaysia
2 Jul 09
I was once hating myself for being very shy, and very afraid of what people may think of me, which resulting in me being always hesitating on doing things as of excessively thinking the effects on other people. This kind of attitude also makes me a colder person among of my friends - only certain of my friends understand my problem. I don't know since when my attitude seem changed lately. Now i am more straight forward to whatever i think is right and wrong, and get a lot of reactions from my friends. Some likes it, others hates me and saying that i am not the same people they've known. Some even say i need to see a doctor. Haha so funny but i guess i am proud of who i am now and i am not thinking of changing back to the last me. I've left him way back a long time ago.. And yeah, i am constantly in war with myself. Theres a part of me wanting to be shy, nice kind of person. The other side fires me up with this weird courage to stand up in what ever i do. Sort of like that.
@Sangkala (238)
• Indonesia
2 Jul 09
hi.. sometimes, yes, i blame myself for some mistake that i've done. i just said to myself why i can do such a thing?or how came i can't do better like others did.. i don't hate myself, but yes, i am in war with myself, trying to be a better man.
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@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
3 Jul 09
Well, everybody makes mistakes and we learn from it.. And if we dun learn from it, then we ought to hate ourself for repeating the same thing.. haha =D As long as we learn from our mistakes, there's no harm in making them in the frist place right?? NObody is perfect, and perfection means learning.. So without mistakes, there wont be perfection too ^_^ So dun hate yourself unneccesarily ^_^