I need some advice, Please help

In my opinion, I think you should ask her to speak to him and tell him what she really feels about the situation and together the relationship. It's not easy to live a life when you already predicted the future! Therefore, take a solid decision and this has to be discussed with each other. I'm sure, he will listen to her if he really loves her. You're a very good friend, and I really wish I had many friend like you around me. Take care sweets!

As a friend, I think you should let them decide what they want with each other. I guess let your friend decide on her own although you can give her the you own piece of opinion but imposing your opinion to her would definitely not good. Always respect her decision for it is her life and choice.

As a friend I think you should let them sort it out on their own. With you saying that she should just igve up since the man wants to be stubborn and move into her friends house and just do her own thing is really harsh. If you have never been in an accident and found that you can't do the things that you have done before it is hard on the person that is suffering. I know how he is feeling. I have had a back injury for over the last 3 years and alot of things I can't do. Little things like walking up and down the stairs to do my laundry was very hard on my body and I didn't want to ask for help. However now I will ask for help once in awhile but not often I know I have to get that out of my system but I don't want to be a burden on my family and friends and that is how this guy is feeling. Don't just go and say that he is being stubborn because he doesn't want to ask for help. With your friend they need to work it out on their own. Tell her to talk to him and discuss it with him. If she is in love with him and he in love with her they will work it out and come to some sort of conclusion. But if she is going to leave him because he doesn't want to ask for help thats pretty low. But that is her choice.

That is a really tough situation. Are either of them working? If he's not working then he needs to either find a job or if not able to then he needs to apply for disability if he can't work right now. Do either of them have family that might be able to help talk to them about the situation? She has a good friend in you that you are concerned about what is going to happen in a few months. Even if he applies for disability, it takes several months to process it all and it may include doctors visits and even a lawyer if denied. It sounds like they are burying their heads in the sand so to speak and hoping that things will get better. But they need to take action now. The way I look at it, if someone is driving along and about to go off a cliff, then I need to tell them that at least once. If they ignore me that is their choice. So I'd try to talk to her at least once about the reality of these tough times and see if she has any ideas of what can be done. Maybe he's suffering from depression and simply can't help himself right now but something needs to change. I wish them the best and you for your good heart

About this emotional matters, I think the only one who can help her is herself. What is more important in her heart?? If she loves him so much, I think she will be sad even though having a rich life after leaving him. The best way is that she can help the man to calm down and think about all these that happened, find a job and have a ordinary life.

this depend on your friend, she make her decision, and be responsible for the decision. maybe she think the man worth her doing like this. if not ,she should leave him.

yeah let her decide bc then if you tell her that she should do her own thing and she doesnt do it...it could make you upset and not want to tell her anything else again bc she'll do the opposite. Been down that road before. Let her do her own thing and just be there when she needs to talk. Yet I've also cut off some communication bc she was callin me too much about what she should do and the answer was common sense. That became a little annoying. So yeah all in all keep to yourself. But if she asks you, then you tell her the truth.