Did you exaggerate your love feelings during dating?

India
July 6, 2009 2:05pm CST
people used to say I can't live with you, I will die if I can't live with you.... etc etce... during the initial period of love. have you uttered such words to your love? Do find those words meaningful now?
4 responses
@jaiho2009 (39019)
• Philippines
6 Jul 09
as a scorpion, i guess as an astrologer u know more about how scorpion's acts when it comes to love matters...im not very much showy with it,i show'd my love in many ways but not thru words...
• India
6 Jul 09
that is better always. words can't help a relationship for a long run, only the acts do. Your partner is lucky jaiho. Do you know the latest news about jaiho?
@jaiho2009 (39019)
• Philippines
6 Jul 09
yes ...jaiho song by Rahman, and pussycat dolls,they come here in the Philippines to preform but with Rahman,if given chances Rahman will ever come to perform here in the Phils, i would try my best to watch his performance.
@jaiho2009 (39019)
• Philippines
6 Jul 09
sorry ...but not with Rahman (so sad ) it would be more great if they had performed with Rahman.
@catzzz (109)
• Ireland
6 Jul 09
I seldem say those words...but I love my bf. maybe it's the cultural difference. In Chinese, we love each others without shoting out. we are too shy.
@catzzz (109)
• Ireland
6 Jul 09
sorry, typo. shouting not shoting
• India
6 Jul 09
This is a news to me. even when you both are alone you won't utter such words? At least the man, I mean?
• United States
6 Jul 09
I never said those exact words, but I did convince myself I was in love when I wasn't really. I think "love" in the early stages of life is often intense. Now, I don't have to utter those words. It's just a given. My husband and I know exactly how we feel about each other and don't have to say it out loud all the time. In some ways, doing means more than saying now.
• India
6 Jul 09
well said cheekysuze. It is true that during the initial period we look at only the good aspects of the partner as love/lust blind our eyes at that time. When we start living together the intensity may fade, but that does not mean the care we have for the partner reduces. This time it is REAL LOVE though not so interesting as before
@mrakobesie (1246)
• United States
6 Jul 09
I tell my boyfriend that i can't live without him every day :) i mean it every time. I remember how unhappy i was without him and i know how happy i am now.
• India
6 Jul 09
Nice to hear that from you mrakobesie. I would be still more happy if I asked this question after 10 years and you told the same answer. Best wishes for it pal.