Are you a good listener?

Good listener - be alert and listen what he/she is saying
India
July 8, 2009 3:13pm CST
I think i m a good listner because whenever i attend any seminar or lecture, lecturer always watch me and speak. There are many people told me that i am good at listening.
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5 responses
@shnsun (196)
9 Jul 09
I am a bad listener. I can't concentrate on the lectures at all. Most of the time i feel sleepy and other time, think of something other though i don't want to do. sometimes i listen lectures very well too. But thats very rare in meee...
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• India
14 Jul 09
lestening depends on interest. if you are interested in topic , try to concentrate. Happy mylotting!!
@Renkei (39)
• United States
9 Jul 09
I'm a good listener... most of the time. Except when I'm thinking of something completely different from what's going on, or immersed in some book or something. Then everything else gets tuned out. Of course, I like it that way, because then I can focus more on what I want to do. I pity the people who have to hear every single thing that's going on, heh.
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• India
14 Jul 09
same with me if i m thinking something then i just aroused in that thinking but if someone is telling me important think i try to concetrate more on him then me.Happy mylotting!!
@kircho (493)
• Bulgaria
8 Jul 09
Well done. According to me I am very bad listener if I can compare myself with you. Whenever I listen to somebody I am Anywhere else but not in the right place in the right time. Especially when speak with my mom...
• India
8 Jul 09
if you are not interested in others talk this may happen but are you same for all or only for your mother?
@tonyllenium (6252)
• Italy
14 Jul 09
i think i am ok too as listener so i am not that kind of people that like speak too much or in some cases they speak to say nothing at all!!So normally i can be a good listener too even if sometimes i will speak when it is real appropiate to do and not as it happened!! I think nowadays this is not a so spread thing because normally people like to say their view but rarely they can listen that one of others!!
• India
16 Jul 09
I am same like you, i too dont like to talk too much but love to listen.I also have observed that normally people like to represent their views then to listen others, due to this habbit they can accept thought of others. Happy Mylotting!!
@Sandra1952 (6047)
• Spain
8 Jul 09
I'm definitely a good listener. One of the ministers at our chapel says she loves preaching when I'm there, because she can connect with me and can tell from my face that I'm taking everything in. Listening is good manners. If someone takes the trouble to speak to you, the least you can do is listen properly to what they say before you reply. A couple of my friends are really annoying. As I speak to them, I can tell by their faces that they are thinking what they are going to say next, rather than listening to what I'm saying. When they do this, I disconcert them by throwing in something that has nothing to do with what we've been talking about. Then I sit back and enjoy their confusion as they try to work out where they lost the thread of the conversation!
• India
8 Jul 09
that's very good behaviour. its very good you disconnect when you talk with your friend and compel them to think where they left the thread. very good.