What to Do

Pakistan
July 9, 2009 6:12am CST
can you help me? i am a student working part time on internet i love my family they have many expectations from me but i can't able to do what they want from me? my father always angry with me because i am use less i don't know how can i make them happy....
6 responses
@shimanaja (493)
• Indonesia
10 Jul 09
Hi faridii.. I think your family very loves you...don't take any wrong with your father anger.. I'm sure he wants the best 4 you...for your future of course.. Don't lose the spirit doing your best for your family..don't you worry that you can't able to make your fam proud of you. Just do whatever you want and show them that u are not useless like they thought. You have to be yourself and make sure you can reach your dream... Reach your dream and doing with your heart... The time will be show your capability..if you're really serious on your working... I believe your family will finally understand... Have a good spirit for your bright future..:)
• Pakistan
10 Jul 09
Yap i know they Love me and i love them too. that is why i am following their every order. Thanks for the reply buddy
@busky5 (3164)
• Thailand
9 Jul 09
If father wants you hard study, i think you should fellow your father, and to be polite, not hit with another, go to study everyday, maybe enough.
• Pakistan
10 Jul 09
Well i am following each and every order of my father i am interested in computer field but they want me to become a lawyer i am doing LLb they want me to do a job i am doing part time job to support them.
@pengbubu (1011)
• China
9 Jul 09
Everyone has dream, I think you should chase your own dream. Your parents give you too much expectation because they want you to fufill their unfulfilled dreams or things. It's not yours, so I think you should struggle for it. But one thing you have to know is that life is rude. Have a goal and then work hard for it. Happy mylottin, Faridii. Also welcome to mylot this big virtual family.
• Pakistan
10 Jul 09
Thanks for your reply buddy. i am doing as they want but they are still not happy with me. well its my bad luck.
@ckyera (17332)
• Philippines
9 Jul 09
oh! that's difficult...and sorry to hear it. do you know what are your parents expectations from you? do you think you have done your best? well i think no one in this world is useless...i hope your dad can think first before saying anything like that... have you try talking to them? saying what you feel and how much you can do... i think you should talk to them and tell them how you feel, tell them that you are trying your best to do what they want to the best that you can...but you also have your limitations... just keep on doing what do you think is right, don't lose hope, be patient and keep on loving and respecting your parents...maybe they just want the best for you but just uses a wrong way...but try to understand them also... you can make your parents happy by obeying them, respecting them and keep on doing your best for them... don't forget to ask for God's help and guidance to you and your family... wish you good luck and i hope that your problem will be fixed as soon as possible! have a nice day and welcome to mylot...
• Pakistan
10 Jul 09
Yes i know their expectations what they want from me is to follow their all orders like i am interested in Computing but they want me to become a lawyer "i accepted" they want me to do a job and support family "i am doing job" but still i feel that they are not happy with me. Well i believe in God. God will help me. and thanks for your your reply.
@bird123 (10632)
• United States
16 Jul 09
Listen to the advice of others but walk your own path. This of course means planning and setting goals then doing everything in your power to make it happen. Have the passion and drive to let nothing get in your way. Parents problems??? Communications is an important part of any relationship. First, take command of the situation. Get them both together. Tell them you have something very important to discuss with them. After getting them alone, tell them your goals. Show them your passion. Most parents will want to help. Remember, when people are really thinking, there is little time to get emotional. Get it all planned out ahead of time. Anticipate their questions. Have the answers.Few things worth while come easy in life. Let's get to it. Time's a wasting. You can do this!!!
• Indonesia
9 Jul 09
problem like this hardly often happened medical of family.. many old fellows forces its desire to the children.. often we hear many childs to quarrel with the old fellow having tip of run from the home.. if according to me, you are understanding berry to them, to what end we follow their desire if we are not happy, the only useless castaway regret and time, what experiences life we are our own, important does according to we can make happy us, doesn't not disturb them and doesn't make shame..
• Pakistan
10 Jul 09
i am doing my best to follow or obey each and every order of father. let hope for the best. and thanks for reply