Have you forgotten how to laugh?

@zandi458 (28102)
Malaysia
July 11, 2009 1:15pm CST
Laughter they say is the best medicine but even healthy people stop laughing nowadays. Even though there has been considerable material progress and people are busy accumulating wealth, there is a sense of discontentment and unhappiness everywhere. People today go for laughter therapy because they have forgotten how to laugh. How sad? Though people still go around shaking hands with each other but their faces have no smiles. Unhappiness is clearly painted on everyone's faces I met today. Laughter is one of the happiest and most healthy activities known to the human race and is the shortest distance between two people. It is also a life enhancer and a great gift, one that can be given easily and often. One that always make me roll into laughter are those funny jokes, funny pictures that my friends send to my email everyday. Not only do they keep me laughing but it keeps friendship alive and connected. So do not let those funny jokes you receive in your emails fade away. Share them with others. They draw out the laughing gases from you and keep the blues away. If you have not had a good laugh today, now is the time to make that happen.
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@kayedanda (1850)
• Philippines
11 Jul 09
No, certainly not in our family. With our one-year old daughter learning new things everyday and showing it off to us (my hubby and I), it's hard not to. She never fails to make us laugh with her antics and just generally how she discovers things around her. Lately I noticed that hubby and I have lesser things to argue about. I think it's because of Svet (our daughter) making us laugh everyday. Even during the start of a potential argument, she would just give us her biggest smile or do one of her newly-learned tricks and the tension between Paul (hubby) and I would completely dissolve. I thank our daughter everyday for not only making us laugh, but for bringing us that blissful joy, something that I have never felt in a long time.
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
12 Jul 09
The apple of your eyes is so adorable and a great blessing to be around as she rekindles the love you shared.
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@kayedanda (1850)
• Philippines
12 Jul 09
aww.. thanks for the compliment zandi! *hugs*
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@mrakobesie (1246)
• United States
11 Jul 09
I think happiness makes people more beautiful too... when you see someone smile and you know it's fake, it's just not the same as seeing someone who is truly happy. I grew up in a place where people don't pretend to be happy to see you, so it's very easy for me to tell when someone is not honest. sad to say, now most people are not carrying honest smiles on their faces... i personally love laughing, and sometimes i laugh so hard that my abdomen hurts... i make my friends laugh too... one of them usually starts hiccuping after she hangs out with me for a few hours lol
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
12 Jul 09
Guess, you must have excess laughing gas? I can see you are a jovial person that spreads your laughter to friends. keep it that way for the world is so happy to see you laughing.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
13 Jul 09
Hi Zandi! You are right that laughter is the best medicine and we should not miss a single opportunity to laugh. When I open newspaper in the morning, I see funny cartoons and jokes at the first instance. Whenever I hear a new joke, I love to share the same with my friends. Same is the case with e-mails, if I receive a funny one, I immediately forward it to my friends. If you have some funny and laughable mails, please forward those to me.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
20 Jul 09
Your funny emails are always welcome!
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
20 Jul 09
I can sense that you have not lost the touch of laughter in you. I will be happy to share email jokes with anyone who appreciate jokes and can be entertained by them.
@savypat (20216)
• United States
12 Jul 09
You are right, I don't laugh as much as I use to, I don't know why. I guess I'm just out of the habit. It's not that I don't find things funny it's just that they don't seem as funny. I promise to try to do better.
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
12 Jul 09
Changes in us change our way of looking at funny things. We no longer laugh easily.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
13 Jul 09
Maybe aging make us view things differently and also we become more serious.
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@savypat (20216)
• United States
12 Jul 09
Why do you think that is?
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@kawalnarang (1095)
• Trinidad And Tobago
11 Jul 09
And May I add ..this is no laughing matter,,ha ha ha ha ha ,, at least there are some who remind us that forwarding jokes and similar material on the net is one of the modern ways to start laughing again,,and friends if u do not laugh out loud,, your smile might do at least more than half of the job mmmmm,,any senders,, kawalnarang@yahoo.com,,keep laughing,, enjoy
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
12 Jul 09
That is the purpose of those email jokes that we received from friends. They keep us laughing when nothing else can uplift our burdened mind and heart. Laughter sure put sunshine back to our life and bridge the relationship of distance friends. Your jokes are commendable. Very hilarious and interesting.
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@jugsjugs (12967)
11 Jul 09
At the moment i do not have much to smile about no more so as for having a laugh i can not even do that anymore.I tend to try to listen to the jokes at the pub what friends are saying and then try to laugh just to keep them happy.I am trying to make things change in my life so who knows maybe in the future i will be able to laugh when i am alot happier.Happy Mylotting.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
12 Jul 09
serious? you have forgotten how to laugh now? Something must be seriously wrong in your life, even laughing needs to be artificial just to make others happy. Very sad indeed.
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@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
12 Jul 09
I have been told that Ismile all the time and why not as life is short and a smile does wonders to the other person!
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@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
12 Jul 09
yup it does
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
12 Jul 09
smiling is infectious, it spreads fast and brings a lot of goodness to us.
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@subha12 (18441)
• India
13 Jul 09
It can be said for me. There are so many troubles in life each day, its hard to laugh now.Even I have seen many days its too tough to get my thaught away from it.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
20 Jul 09
Troubled life have changed our outlook in life. Not much of fun anymore and laughter is hard to come by.
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
12 Jul 09
U are so right,Zzndi, laughter is great medicine & i hope i never get to the point where i can't laugh. so far so good. I have had a sad week but i want bore u w.the details so i have laughed & cried this week. Many laughs to you, MY FRIEND.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
12 Jul 09
well at least there is a variety of emotions that has passed through your life during the week. What a joy when we can laugh at any small jokes, it brightens up our day and erases what ever little trouble we are facing.
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
13 Jul 09
A good laugh does us all good. I get quite a few email jokes & enjoy them all.
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@rainmark (4302)
14 Jul 09
Even i got some problems i never forget how to laugh. Coz i have so many reasons to be happy, smile and laugh. My son always makes me feel happy and he makes me laugh all the time. My hubby when i feel down he tickles me so i can laugh. well life isn't that simple but it's not the reason to forget to laugh. Cheers.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
20 Jul 09
You're right, even at the most trouble times we still need to laugh a bit. We need not be grumpy all the time, it is aging and pulls the gravity of facial features when we sulk more than we laugh.
@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
13 Jul 09
i guess sometimes i do forget how to laugh especially if i am so stressed and i have to much work...sadly it happens but when i am with my kids, i comes back to me and i do laugh with them and it is always a very wonderful feeling, it releases all stress!
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
20 Jul 09
The children are a joy to be around. They bring back the sunshine in our life.
@suzzy3 (8342)
14 Jul 09
I do laugh a lot at most things ,having fun is a good thing for everybody it releaves stress and makes you feel better.Although it is hard to find anything to laugh at these days but we must look for humour.Have a good laugh thats what I say the troubles seem to go at these times.You are right it is a life enhancer.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
20 Jul 09
You're right, when we can laugh it releases our stress in life. Laughing makes us forget our problems for a while.
@sjvenden27 (1840)
• United States
19 Jul 09
Laughing is a part of my every day life.. I share the same views as you.. There was a time in my life were I didn't laugh or even smile.. I had no reason too.. and I did not see the benefit of putting on a clown face to make people think I was happy.. when I was truly miserable... Now I laugh at least once a day, it makes life some much sweeter and easier to deal with every day life.. I have also found that it makes people want to be around me; instead of hiding... Did not realize what a negative attitude could project to others...
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
20 Jul 09
Definitely laughter can be infectious and will make others happy too.
@nehaagra (848)
• Singapore
13 Jul 09
Laughter is indeed the best medicine of all. And i could say i do laugh my heart out, whenever i feel. Actually i do show all my emotions clearly to everyone.. hehe. You know when in school, i got scolded so many times for laughing (or smiling) in betwen lectures, and getting caught by the professor...
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
20 Jul 09
You are likely a very jovial person. Keep that up and you'll invite many good fortune in your life.
@worldwise1 (14885)
• United States
12 Jul 09
Having just come from a discussion about crying, zandi, I felt it only fitting that I chime in on your discussion about laughter. While it is true that people are finding less and less to smile or laugh about in these tough times, we should all take some time out of our day to just laugh. I subscribe to a couple of newsletters that deliver some laughs to my email inbox each day. Also, I receive the occasional amusing email from friends. I cannot imagine what life would be like if there was no laughter. I hope that everyone will find something to make them laugh each and every day.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
12 Jul 09
Life won't be fun anymore if there is no laughter.
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@Frederick42 (2024)
• Canada
12 Jul 09
Yes, laughter is the best medicine. And I have never forgoteten how to laugh. But many people nowadays do not laugh because life is full of stress and that is why people are imserable. However, I strongly feel that laughter can destroy or at least, greatly reduce the stress in life and thus laughter can pave the way for us to live a life that is really worth living.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
12 Jul 09
I agree with you stress run us down which makes life so miserable.
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@nitu1952 (286)
• India
12 Jul 09
i agree with this that with the increase in standard of living of people tension is also increasing at the same rate . now every person in the family have his personal mobile. expenses are increasing at a rapid rate . this makes the person forgot to laugh.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
12 Jul 09
Everyday problems make laughing so difficult.
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• Philippines
12 Jul 09
this is one thing I don't forget to do everyday.I laugh,even at some shallow stuff.I believe laughter can make us feel younger and brighter.I feel that we should laugh everyday.there are enough problems in the world,and we should not let it get the best of us.life is beautiful.laugh everyday!
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
12 Jul 09
You have got that right. Don't let problem control our life. Laugh to make living comfortable and fun.
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@Bandeed (82)
• Australia
12 Jul 09
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
12 Jul 09
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@saw2207 (1359)
• United States
12 Jul 09
I have often heard it said “What soap is to the body, laughter is to the soul” happy lotting to you zandi
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
12 Jul 09
I like that saying. Thanks saw.
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