Love and be loved,what would you prefer?

it may sound selfish but I would like to be loved.I would like to be loved rather than stress over someone who I love but doesn't love me back.I would rather be happy and have someone gush over me,than do the gushing.it is much more stressful when you love someone and that person doesn't love you in return.it lowers your self esteem and question yourself,"what's wrong with me?why doesn't he love me back?am I not pretty/sexy enough?"

I know it's a hard choice for many people including me, there are girls who want to marry a man who she loves, and some part of girls who I know would like to be loved. To me, if I can't be the luckies one to have both of them, then I choose to be loved. To say this, I don't think I'm a selfish girl on this point, but I really think that the man who loves me is the one who can see my shots, actually I'm not beautiful, so I believe the one who loves me must have found some good things in me beyond a good-looking face. So I would like to love him with my heart. I'm sure we'll have a happy life.

That's a tough decision lol. On one hand, it's always wonderful to feel the power of love, and gratifying to be able to be a loving person. On the other hand, it would be nice to be loved back, especially when you are giving so much love. In my last marriage I loved, but never seemed to recieve it back, so I'd have to go with being loved. (That would be a wonderful change from giving and not getting it back lol) I still think though to, I'd rather keep my loving personality, and have an equal loving relationship.

I hope the person I love also loves me back. Somebody had said, as a female, I would rather be loved if I could not find the one I love. I think they have their reasons, but I still expect love from both. If I had to choose, I hope to be loved.

some people in world are very lucky.they have both Love & be loved but I think You should prefer to Love someone Who loves you.