How can he...
By jugsjugs
@jugsjugs (12967)
July 14, 2009 1:31pm CST
he asks whats the matter knowing we have not seen eye to eye for along time,i know im not happy so i am sure he is not happy so then he says he loves me and then he has another dig at me being sarcastic,well not for much longer.There is nothing going on in our bedroom and there is only the kids that we have in common.We never sit together we do not even go anywhere together.
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@cobrateacher (8432)
• United States
14 Jul 09
Sweetie, I hope you can find the right path. Separating seems the most logical way, given the possibility that it could all start fresh again and become the wonderful relationship you both started out expecting it to be!
@khayshenz (1384)
• United States
15 Jul 09
Hi Ms J:
I'm terribly sorry to hear that you're going through something like this. I guess my question is this: are you willing to work this out with your husband?
I think that relationships are cut and dry, whether you want to stay or go. A wishy-washy "maybe" will get you in a whole lot of hurt and pain.
And I know that you said you have kids - and I hope you don't make them your reason for staying. Because your children will suffer if you're a miserable mother. They will know and they will notice.
Good luck with everything!!! Hang in there - I know you're tough as a nail.
*hugs*
