Are you a boring guy?

United States
July 20, 2009 4:42am CST
Have you ever thought about you are boring type of guy? lack of excitement in life; and without any sense of humor, or your sense of humor doesn't make any sense to other people. You prefer stay home most of the time, just reading and watching TV. How would you trying to change yourself? I meant how would you modify yourself to become more fun - engaging, and people - likable type of person? Would that be against who you are in order to fit in?
3 responses
@CJscott (4184)
• Canada
22 Jul 09
What constitutes a boring guy? I am not what I would consider a boring guy, but I might be what you consider a boring guy. People laugh when I make jokes most of the time, I do prefer to stay at home and read, but then when I am out, I share what I learn and most people are grateful for that. I go out when I am invited or inspired to do so. I do not Watch TV at all, it is bad for your brain you know:S uses up many hours that can be put to better use. I have changed myself many times in my short years, you start with a POSITIVE MENTAL ATTITUDE Then you focus on the kind of person you want to be, and tell yourself you are like that person, and that person you become. I am a very likable person, or at least it seems that way to me. Why would you want to fit in? Every one is unique, just like everyone else. But you should be YOU not what society wants you to be. So long as you don't violate the rights of others. Cheers.
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@jagadi (12)
• India
22 Aug 09
Every people have their own perspective for the definition boring type. Some like to go to party and having rocking time but there are others who like to stay at home and enjoy quiet life. Considering me, i would say i have both these traits so it is hard to say whether i am boring or not...
@thea09 (18324)
• Greece
22 Aug 09
Absolutely you are right my dear to worry that your young man can be boring but as I've advised you before dear it is best in the long run. If you are considering marriage this time you need to see his boring side as a good thing, he will be far too bored to notice any little liasons you can manage whilst he is working abroad so don't give it another thought. After all if you were marrying for love he might end up boring too once the passion wears off but he might not be working abroad so could really get on your nerves.