Losing Someone and then Losing something that belonged to the one You Lost

New Zealand
July 20, 2009 8:42pm CST
Hi there Mylotters and Friends Today was D-Day. We lost Dad September 08 and then his car sat outside the house till today and then wham it's gone like he has. There's not a lot left that even means he's round somehow. I used to drive with Dad in the car before GOD STOLE HIM. So, how do I even walk in the door and live here without anything to help me feel like he is here in some way? Catch ya later pretty_babe
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devideddi
@devideddi (1435)
• United States
5 Aug 09
He is still with you in your heart. And you must draw closer to God so that the two of you can be together again. I know it hurts, I'm sorry, time will help.
pretty_babe
@pretty_babe (704)
• New Zealand
21 Aug 09
Hi devideddi, thanks for your response. I can't let God get anywhere close to me. I will do that when and only when I am ready to let God back in. Catch ya later pretty_babe
Jane
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
21 Jul 09
Sorry to hear this friend,i do understand how you were feeling right now.It really take us sometime to move on from our losses. Like what you have said,walking at the door,or wathcing your fav.movie or tv series,so many things that always reminds us will make us difficult to move on. But,somehow it is also some feeling of happiness,remembering our loved ones from all the happy moments shared together and all the places we've been together. Just keep your life moving dear,this is the reality about life,someone may go but life for us won't stop there. Cheers
pretty_babe
@pretty_babe (704)
• New Zealand
21 Jul 09
Hi jaiho2009 Thanks for your comments. I can't answer right now past this so I will get back to you. Tired and all. Catch ya later pretty_babe
grammasnook
@grammasnook (1871)
• United States
21 Jul 09
This is all part of the grieving process and you are angry right now, but you will see that God did not take him he walked the journey to him. He seen the light and when he felt it was his time he took that trip. God just had his arms open to love and guide him. One day you will forgive both God and your father but it is a process that you must complete. Once you forgive you will be able to see your father all the time in many things that you do. I pray for your strength to dig in deep and forgive.
pretty_babe
@pretty_babe (704)
• New Zealand
21 Jul 09
Hi grammasnook Thanks for the comment. I will get back to you when I have a bit more time, It's nearly bedtime right now. Catch ya later pretty_babe
dmrone
@dmrone (746)
• United States
21 Jul 09
Hi! You keep going on, and walking in that door because that is what your Dad would want you to do. You live because that is what your Dad would want you to do. Your Dad is there with you, because he is a part of you and he will always be a part of you. You carry him in your heart everyday, and everywhere you go, always.
pretty_babe
@pretty_babe (704)
• New Zealand
21 Jul 09
Hi dmrone Thanks for your comment. I will get back to you cos I need to do some other things like going to bed for the night after a drink Catch ya later pretty_babe
PSmith721
@PSmith721 (286)
• United States
21 Jul 09
Hey there, Pretty_babe, I want you to go to the mirror and look real close! Go on--I'll wait--OK. Did you see that little sparkle in the corner of your eye or that cute little nose or something that looks like your Father? If you look long enough or close enough, your Father is there, with you. He will guide you. He has given you life and will want you to carry on the love that he gave you. Remember that he loved you and is in your heart always. God loves you too! And He is with you also to help you through the whole mourning process. Hope this will help you!
pretty_babe
@pretty_babe (704)
• New Zealand
21 Jul 09
Hey PSmith721. Thanks for your comments. I really can't deal with this kind of thing right now. God is NOT my friend right now, he's taken my DAD off me whether he is here in me or not. Catch ya later pretty_babe