Will you be in a new relation with somebody just to revenge because....

I think this type of relationship is called rebound. You may not be fully ready for it. But after breakup, you want to be in relation again. Its more so like getting a support, a shoulder to rely on.

no no.. don't do that.. this will not just hurt yourself, it will also hurt the other innocent party. I will not take revenge to start a new relationship.. I will take revenge if I need to, I will do it with the person that cheated on me, and not with another person.. I believe whoever treated you badly, that person should be the one that 'enjoy' the consequences..

In one of the responses i see you asked whether there was an innocent party,of course the on you are using to take revenge is an innocent party.He/she didnt help in inflicting any pain yet you are using that person in your scheme.Why would you even bother avenging your love?Thats the kind of thinking that puts us in certain situations.I dont know if you watch Lifetime but there is a movie(cant remember the name)where a wife found out that her husband was having an affair and she went ahead and had one with the hotel manager who gave all the information she needed to catch her husband.Then she broke it off with him because she realize that it just wasnt the right thing to do.The guy was a sicko,he stalked her,listened to her conversations at home and then almost killed her family.We have to be very careful about that revenge theory.

you will feel the anger after you are finished with your self pitying. but thinking of revenge is not the best one. you will never be happy if you plant a grudge. and you will just be using your new relationship as an escape. it is not good. so i strongly suggest for one who is jilted and is angry to pray and ask guidance from the Lord so he/she may be happy again. ann

If some relation cheated me at that time I think that I will definitely get revenged. But after the cool thinking it is not correct at all. But it very bad who are most liked one's causes cheating. Happy myLotting.

if somebody cheated me and i want to punish him, then there is a lot of option rather than to use anybody else...i think if i be in new relation to take the revenge from my old love then it will be unfair with that person with whom i m in new relation,because if someday he will find out that i don't do the true love with him then it will very bed with him...and if i do like this i'll also become a cheater. so, in my view if u r in new relationship after a breakup then take it as a MEDICINE for healing not as a weapon for taking REVENGE.

No...I don't get into that & just try to be true to myself and fair to others. It would not be fair to another person to be used in that way. If someone cheats on me...I deal with it. I won't lower myself to the same level that I'm upset about. I'm not going to cheat...just to get even when I am against cheating. I'm not going to compromises my own convictions to get even with someone who did me wrong.

i don't think taking revenge for a relationship will not help at all. so a rebound relationship is not good also. entering a new relationship means you're ready to move on, you're ready to get a new life and a new love with a new partner. i think it would be unfair to your new partner if at first your intention was not true and you did love him/her because you are for a revenge to your ex. loving someone means being honest to your true feelings and giving it to your partner unconditionally. ^_^

I still do not know if I would do that if I were in the same situation. Ideally, I think it would be unfair to the new love because it seems that you are just using the person to take revenge on your ex. It would also be unfair for you if you try to resort doing things like that. It only shows that you have not moved on yet. They say that the best revenge a woman could have is still to look pretty.

Ya would like to go for new relation just to know that how special i am and i can get easily other girlfriend.To know her that i am so special.Definetly i would like to flirt yaar.

No, I won't do that. I find that ignoring is the best revenge^^,, I don't like and won't waste my time to be in a new relationship just to revenge. If my ex don't want me anymore then I don't want him anymore, that's all. How can I want to be someone who cheated on me? he's not worth even for to be think anymore. It's over and I won't do any single act related on him.

There are people who go into unhealthy relationship. I think it is called a rebound. When one is dumped, he or she just tries to get another partner, just so that the person is never alone. This is sad because the relationship is not formed because of interest. It starts because one is fear of being alone.

No, I don't like the idea of revenge in relationships. And if someone have cheated on you, i think it doesn't affect to him/her much if you are revenging it. You can't be sure if those people have even liked you, they might have been with you because of other benefits they get. If my partner cheats on me, all i can say is that its over and go find that another one, not because of her, because of me!

This could hurt you pretty bad if the rebound person is in any way involved with your ex or ex friends. Might turn into a really bad "romantic comedy" gone bad.

I am not interested in revenge, nor am I interested in new relationships right now, because I'm happily married. However, were something to happen, I would not want to get revenge by having another relationship. There are plenty of other ways to resolve a tough situation.

at first yes i want to revenge. but when im thinking of like that i stopped because its not right. who will be get hurt. of course "me". i just try to forget him and im always say to myself maybe his not the one there is someone better than him.

If the person has cheated you and you feel hurt. Then how can you love another person and cheat him. You are doing the same to the other peron then. Then again this revengeful feeling will contine. No one will wait to realize their mistake. I feel that you should make the person realize his mistake in some way. If you do not care, then find a true lover or atleast don't do the same mistake. You have felt the pain, don't make some innocent feel the same...