plz help me out.how to figure out weather he is genuine or not?

@Archie0 (4669)
July 29, 2009 8:27am CST
How to figure out weather the opposite person claiming to like u is not fake but genuine? I am trying to figure this out but in vain plzz help me..or give some suggestions..
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11 responses
• India
15 Aug 09
Very simple. Observe his speech. Look at his eyes. These two things enough, I hope.. Lot of things can be judged from a person if we do these 2 things. Have a nice time, Archie!
• India
25 Aug 09
What'choo talkin' 'bout, archie??
@owlwings (39229)
• Cambridge, England
21 Sep 09
'Liking' or 'Love' has many meanings. Most people say 'like' or 'love' honestly and without fake ... but on their terms. Your problem is to discover what their terms are and whether they have anything to do with your terms! First find out what you want ... where you are centered and where you want your life to go ... then ask whether what the other person wants is going (even roughly) in the same direction.
@balasri (26554)
• India
18 Sep 09
If the liking is unconditional without any single expectation and without any strings attached to it then it should be a genuine one.
@rajupaul (975)
• India
16 Sep 09
Dear Archie I can say a simple solutin to justify a man, look at his eye and talk. Listen his each word, try to find out facts in his word.Rest leave to god.
• United States
5 Sep 09
I guess there are always clues when talking to someone. Do they act the way they should? Are they honest with you? Do you feel a special spark with them? These are all questions I would ask myself if I was trying to figure this type of thing out in my own head. I would also ask a close friend to meet them to see what they think of them, sometimes people outside the box can see things we do not. I hope this helps and happy mylotting to you.
@dpk262006 (56170)
• Delhi, India
30 Aug 09
Hi there! I think if a person is genuine, he will remain consistent in his behavior and you may not find much changes in his attitude towards you. However, inconsistent behavior could be a cause of concern. When I write this, I understand you have already got many tips on the issue..........LOL!
• United States
30 Jul 09
I have to say from experience that actions speak louder than words. I agree with the person who said watch and see how they treat others when you are there. does he treat everyone the same? or does he change when it is convenient for him? and little things like opening doors for you or carrying your shopping bags or helping out in little ways tell a lot about a person.
• United States
30 Jul 09
i have found out that when you meet a guy and he is very quick to confess his "deep feelings" for you then he is usually not genuine and he has other motivations or intentions with you. most often when a guy truly likes and feels for someone he would be private about his feelings in the beginning because of fear of rejection or other reasons. just don't let your guard down easily because a lot of men out there are not who you think they are!! good luck to you.
@devmitra (274)
• India
29 Jul 09
I think conversation,interaction can help a great in such a situation.Above all,his behaviour towards other people in the society is an indication about the person he is.For an example,if he calls a waiter rudely,then you must infer,that he lacks compassion,and he may be a little difficult to hang on with.Look out if he respects other women or behaves in a a fashion,that appears odd to you.Try to understand,whether he really cares for you,or takes you for granted.These small things will help you to make out whether tha person concerned is really the right man or not.
@sarcasms (120)
• India
29 Jul 09
love is a feeling which develops with time ....i guess in ur case wen u find the right person u just know ...if someone likes u then he is willing to do smthng extra fr u ...this thing could be anything try to talk to u more often give u some gifts or just make u feel happy if the peson presence makes u feel happy and u can see by his small small actions that he is do smthng extra fr u then u come to know if the person likes u or not
@my4tunes (64)
• New Zealand
29 Jul 09
I used to try little tests so that they wouldnt realize it was a test eg.make them go that extra step to help you out somehow. Also, getting into a really good conversation breaks down barriers and lets you find out what the other person likes, whether you have anything in common, whether they're really interested in you or not by the questions they ask you (or don't ask you).