Have U Ever?....

United States
July 30, 2009 5:39pm CST
Has anyone ever wanted to be with a certain person and knew that it would never happen? And if so, how did you handle the situation?
4 responses
• India
31 Jul 09
yes,i have.But you got to take that positively and hence dont sit and dissapoint yourself.I just had in mind that one day she would know how much i loved her.and i think that i was successful in that.
@kevchua (1004)
• Malaysia
31 Jul 09
I have, more than once. It took time for me to learn that they were not for me - sometimes the hard way. I've got hurt; in fact the hurt was self-inflicted. If I had not had too high hopes, I'd not be hurt at all. This happened as I had lots of free time then to think of those girls who were not meant to be mine. To tackle this situation, I'd make myself busy, chat with other friends while not ignoring the "apples of my eye". Treat them as friends, too. I lost a friend once because I was so deeply attracted to her that I felt jealous because I knew I she couldn't be mine as she already had a boyfriend - my ex-classmate. I sure did not repeat that mistake.
• United States
30 Jul 09
Your options are: 1. Try for it, if its something that can be reached in life not fiction. 2. If you KNOW you cant, just stop. Find something small and go for it, you'll feel accomplished.
@jonakyl (493)
• United States
30 Jul 09
Yes, I wanted to be with Natalie Portman, still do =) I know it will never happen =( I take it one day at a time.