Do you usually gossip behind people's back ??
By Novelist_117
@Novelist_117 (566)
Qatar
August 1, 2009 2:26pm CST
Hi all :)
Sometimes people pissed off and become really
angry about someone's behavior , so they just open their
mouths to whom they know and then start doing conversation
about that person in a bad way !! I hate this kind of people
I wish if all people stop gossip coz its spread evil in the nature
surround them, even if he or she did
something wrong it doesn't mean that we have to talk behind
his or her back we can work it out in another way and act peacefully !!
and the worst thing LOL when nothing has happened ,
people may gossip about someone pass or talk to them perhaps just to have fun
or bored and lazy to discuss something useful..
so,do you usually do the same to anybody
for reasons or for no reasons !! Do you usually gossip behind people's
back to have fun ??
10 responses
@songfeifie261 (21)
• China
2 Aug 09
it's not fun to goosip. i don't like to be friends with these people. oh, but i like to watch movie GOOSIP GIRL. XOXO. GOOSIP GIRL... have you ever watched this movie?
@Novelist_117 (566)
• Qatar
2 Aug 09
hi songfeifie
No I didn't watch this movie, it sounds to me
like its not really that good by just the name
@kkoranek23 (18)
• United States
2 Aug 09
Not to have fun....but to get it out my frustrations. If i have been done wrong to i just wanna talk to someone and vent about it. Ill admit that i do gossip but its not like the person will ever know and im not doing it to hurt that person but to (like i said) vent. Or i gossip because im just plain bored. Why do you think people gossip at work???? Cause they are bored and want something to talk about.
@Novelist_117 (566)
• Qatar
2 Aug 09
ya sure because they are bored , coz sometimes if they have nothing
to work on they would gossip about the people who
pass by their offices just like my sister's work place
she tells me alot about workers who gossip behind people :(
its ok to tell your close friend but not spreading what you
have to group of them and have gossip party that would count
really bad !!
thanks for sharing
@ucue2008 (924)
• Malaysia
2 Aug 09
I don't like gossiping and I restrained myself to do that because if I do that to people, other people will do it to me too. So, I won't. But if I really piss off with something, I talk as a way to let out my anger, but with a closed friend only so that the matter stay within us only. Gossiping is very bad, as it can create havoc, hatred and enmity to people. Usually people who like gossiping because they have nothing to do and jealousy too. I hate that kind of person.
@Novelist_117 (566)
• Qatar
2 Aug 09
hi ucue2008 :)
ya sometimes we need to talk to close
person to let our anger out ,it wouldn't count
as an bad gossip it just something you need too
don't worry :)
however, if you spread news about that person
among your friend's group to have gossip party LOL
that would count definitely as a bad gossip !!
all of us hate this kind of people , so stay away from them
ucue2008 and thanks for sharing is really appreciated
@bingchen (1119)
• China
2 Aug 09
i have no this behaviour to do like this,i found that what they did often hurt other peoples,i have same experience, so i don't hope this thing happened behind me.if somebody said somehting about me,i don't care what they said,i kmow the reality myself and don't argue with them what is realtiy,because something can past after several days and they could not talk about this thing,there is a lot of things that could not explained,some people always gossip with other people,they could not pay attention to reality,so we could not see what happened about it,keeping silence make these people could not find other ways to hurt myself,so learn to not care it,maybe this make you quite,
@Novelist_117 (566)
• Qatar
2 Aug 09
ya right bingchen the best way is just to
ignore this kind of people coz they are really bad people
be proud and strong as you are in reality :)
thanks and happy mylotting
@sutent (1060)
• China
2 Aug 09
Hi my friend,
Of course i do not gossip behing people's back. I look down those gossips and I will break up our friendship if one of my friend gossip behind my back. I like make friends with honest and ingenuous persons, as i am that kind of that person.,
Happy mylotting!
@Novelist_117 (566)
• Qatar
2 Aug 09
ya me too suten , I would break up the friendship
if my friend gossiped behind my back
but sure they won't coz I know them farewell hahahaha
thanks
@grace118224 (1038)
• China
2 Aug 09
i totally agree with you that gossip can spread evil in the nature surround them. i hate gossip very much . In my office there are 8 people together . Most of them start gossips about one woman . When this woman leaves or steps away they might begin to gossip about her right now . i don't like this at all . Horrible things indeed.
@Novelist_117 (566)
• Qatar
2 Aug 09
Hi grace I like your response :)
Oh really !! once this women goes out the 8 start their
usual gossip party OMG this is really bad also bad to hear them
coz you already know this women , poor one :(
even if she did something bad to them they must shut their
mouths till they go out the office , coz I guess you knew
about her things because of their daily gossip party right ? LOL
anyway , try to talk to them and advise them coz what if
she heard them once talking about her ?? that would really
bad when and all employees around them already know
@chaime (1152)
• Philippines
2 Aug 09
When I get pissed off I usually run off with my mouth and not care who hears me, and that is including the one I'm pissed of with. so I don't think that's talking behind someone's back, but I will talk whether the one I'm talking about is in the room or not and I will not hesitate to tell that person how I feel, that is when I'm pissed off at a certain event or something that person has done.
But to have fun and such I don't or try not to.. hahaha... I'm a commenter, even for those i don't know, sometimes I'd see someone who wear ridiculous clothing, I'll comment on it with my husband, but I guess that's as far as I go with talking behind someone's back
@bewitched13 (792)
• India
2 Aug 09
I do not like the habit of gossiping especially back biting. But i am sorry i too do that only with my daughter where i have to open my heart out. I have a bad habit of speaking out things which nobody likes. And when you are frank people dislike you forever. In such cases this back biting helps you to releive yourself by talking to your daughter or husband.
On the other hand people who speak on your back earn a good name as they comment nothing on your face so are good ones.I just hate the matter of gossiping or talking about others in their absence for fun or no reason.
Happy mylotting.
@ChrysanTflower (1607)
• Indonesia
2 Aug 09
No, I really feel annoyed with this kind of people too.. There are some girls group in my high school who usually do all the things you've mentioned above, gossiping, LOL when nothing happened, etc. Eventhough it's not me who they've talked about but I feel strange and just don't like it. I can understand if there's a friend who has a problem and need to talk about it to her/his best friend about it but I can't understand about gossiping people and LOL suddenly.. I don't like if those thing happen to me so I never do it.. I prefer to talk to the people whom I have problem with than gossiping about that people behing his/her back..
@studentabe (109)
• Belgium
2 Aug 09
I don't think people gossip for fun. In most case, when they are angry with somebody, they do it to relief their mood unintentionally (eg. talk to friends) or for revenge intentionally (eg.talk to colleages or bosses).
Mature people know gossip will harm their own reputation and get doubt of their personality.
