where is your identity

@abanerji (1026)
India
August 11, 2009 2:08am CST
hi myLotters! i dislike people who copy me. i mean who copy my style talking or my dressing style or just do things that i do. i am myself and wish to be with people who have their own identity. one is adorned by one's own identity. artificial identity has no beauty. have you come across anyone who tries to copy you...? or do you copy someone. we all have and must have role models but that does not mean that we ccopy them and lose our identity. we can follow their foot steps but must keep our own identity intact...
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@madhuvamsi (1185)
• India
23 Aug 09
Well I too do not like to copy someone else style. I like to be in my own style and if anyone copies mine, I have no problem. But I do not like anyone copying me style and making fun of that style. For suppose if I have a habit of combing my hair whenever my hair gets disturb and one of my friend does the same thing like me in funny way and laughs at my act then I do not like it.. He has not right to critise my style.. what do you say?? But in my life, I did not much faced the people who copy my style.. There are some who copied me but I did not felt bad about it..
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@beaushell (339)
• Philippines
11 Aug 09
I understand that it must be annoying to see someone copying you. Its nice that you were able to discover the joy of being yourself and be confident about it. But you know what I think, those who are copying you don't have the opportunity to learn that yet. When people are copying you, it means they like you, what you do, your style. I guess, you are in the best position to lead them to this wonderful truth. If you will tell them your story they will be trilled to listen and learn. I hope you will have the courage to reach out and be a blessing to them.
@abanerji (1026)
• India
11 Aug 09
that is a very positive attitude to handle such a situation...
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
28 Aug 09
hi great discussion my idintity is mine own I am rather reserved and quiet,I love to read,i love to write and talk with just a'few people at a time,i love pasta and hate cow brains and cow innards'love roast beef.i like my hair medium long and not colored and like a minimum of make up.Idont copy anyone else I like myself to be wholly me.