Do you accept AA management in your relationship?
By sblossom
@sblossom (2168)
August 12, 2009 9:46am CST
I just read an article about AA management in marriage or in relationship between man and woman. They live together or they date each other, they share the cost of everything involved in their relationship. When I read the article I was shocked to know some couples share any cost in their relationship, even for very small items.For example for one dollar cost they will share $0.5 each other. Personally I don’t think I can accept this kind of relationship. How about you? How do you manage the cost when you start a relationship? Happy mylotting to all friends.
3 responses
@dlr297 (5409)
• United States
12 Aug 09
I do not think that i could live in a relationship like that. I guess that i am really old fashioned in my beliefs that a man is supposed to take care of making the money, and it is a woman's place to take care of the family.
It is a good thing that i am in a good marriage, because if i would have to go out in the dating world again i would be lost
@hcromer (2710)
• United States
12 Aug 09
I don't think I've ever been in a relationship that was completely 50/50 like that. Me and my boyfriend pretty much live together and we split the cost of a lot of things, but not right down the middle. I'm not going to sit there and nag him to give me 15 extra cents because he didn't pay his full half. I'm lucky that I have this one who splits things with me, in my last relationship I picked up the tab most of the time. It sounds to me like if someone is in this type of relationship that they are more concerned with money than the actual feelings that they have for the other person.
@yugasini (12836)
• Anantapur, India
12 Aug 09
hi sblossom,
sharing of everything is upon their discretion,you might not accept,but i can accept,have a nice day
