because your family and your boyfrienf 's family have resentment,your mom oppose
August 12, 2009 10:06pm CST
one of my friends ,her boyfriend is her palymate from child to now .they love each other for 8 years and now they are together .But her mother opposes that they will marry.If she marry with he ,her mother will to sever relationship between mother and daughter.Because her grandpa has resentment with her boyfriend 'family.my friend is painful for this ,sometimes she is hlepless. how to do if it happened in you?
13 Aug 09
If this happens to me, here's my decision: I'd continue having a relationship with that girl since I love her, and if she loves me, she'd do the same too. I will not let my parents get into my life as I'm now an adult, and I can decide on my own. I don't mean to be rude to my parents, and I don't intend to disrespect them but they should not control my life. It's not appropriate for parents to say that you'll will disown your children. Parents should never say that. In fact, parents should support their children because I'm sure they want their children to be happy. Times have changed. In the olden days, young girls were not allowed to see a boy or even step out of the house. Now, our mentality has changed - and will continue to change. In this case, like what I've mentioned, it all depends on both. If either one does not agree, then they've no choice but to break off. Yes, it is hard, so your friend and his girl have to sit down and talk about the consequences of their decision. Good luck, hope this helps.