Is it necessary to respond back to all the comments I receive for a discussion?

@divkris (1156)
India
August 19, 2009 4:16am CST
First things first, I thank all those who (pro)actively respond to all/most of the discussions i start. Most of them are in my friends list and many people are either new or later get added to my friend's list. I'm thankful for your valuable comments. But i wonder if it is necessary to respond back to all/most of the comments. I know it is courtesy to reply back, but what if i simply don't have time. Now you may ask - if you have time to start a discussion or have the time to respond to others discussion (of course to increase points) then why can't you take some time off to respond back! The truth is i'm not in the right spirit/mood to reply back. I'm really sorry and i agree that it is not a good excuse. But, do you think it is necessary to respond back to all the comments I receive for my discussions?
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@bjcyrix (6901)
• Philippines
19 Aug 09
Its not necessary but it will definitely be most appreciated by those who have responded. Personally, for me, at least. I know that we also have lives outside of myLot and sometimes we just dont have the time to respond to all, most especially if the number of responses are quite overwhelming. It would be kind of awkward if we only choose to comment back on some of the responses. Especially if it is quite clear if some of the responses have been 'skipped'. Well, either way, its okay to not comment but given the very nature of myLot, which is a discussion site, all comments and feedback that would incite a 'discussion dynamic' in the posted question, it would be very highly encouraged.^_^
@bjcyrix (6901)
• Philippines
20 Aug 09
(after re-reading my response..)Oh! That was a doozy! Sorry about that, I think I was slightly out of it when I was myLotting that time.LOL Well, you did get the point that I was trying to make.
@divkris (1156)
• India
19 Aug 09
Hey bjcyrix, that was too technical! LOL but i did get the gist of what you are trying to say and i also tell my referals that the more you are active the more you earn (friends and money) - so one can be active by responding and replying back tot he responders :)
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@cwong77 (2010)
• Malaysia
21 Aug 09
bjcyrix.. indeed yes, your response is technical, however it's give a good ones for us to learn.. with you the one having 2000++ responses, it definitely tell us that you been good ya..
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@derek_a (10874)
19 Aug 09
I know what you mean about not having the time to respond to all posts when I start a discussion, but I do my utmost to do so because I feel it is better to do this than ignore it. If I can't get them all done on day one, I make it my first priority to get back to the discussion the following day. To me it is not a necessity, but something I really want to do in order to thank my friends for taking the time to respond to my discussion. - Derek
@divkris (1156)
• India
19 Aug 09
Hi derek, it has been a long time hearing from you :) I do agree with you about prioritising the reply activity. But the numbers pul me back from the task - may be i should set a target of 15-20 reply a day - thanks for sharing that was really helpful.
• Indonesia
15 Feb 11
hi all, To appreciate our friend for taking the time to respond our discussion, i think thankful is good expression and payback. we can give thankful expression in a various way, for example, with reply the respond to our discussion, although just say hello and telling "thanks for your answer" :)
@srganesh (6340)
• India
19 Aug 09
No!It is not necessary to comment on all responses you get for a post.There is no strict rule to do so.But it is a wide opportunity to earn more if you go for commenting back.Not only that but you can make a post interesting if you comment and make it something like a debate.Sometimes we can get into much details by commenting back.So,consider commenting back but just thanking will not lead to anything.Cheers!
@daliaj (5674)
• India
19 Aug 09
I won't say it is necessary, but I will say it is nice if you can comment on all the responses you get. It is not possible to comemnt on all responses always. For example, it is not possible if you get 100 responses in a day. I will be happy to see the discussion owner commented on my response. I also write another comment if I have something more to say.
@divkris (1156)
• India
19 Aug 09
I do understand daliaj - i eagerly wait for the discussion "owner" response but when the number of comments go up in your discussions then it becomes a little difficult to reply back to all. 100 is a huge number but i have 2-3 discussions that has to be responded back and each of it has an average of 40-50 responses
@braided (698)
• Canada
20 Aug 09
Wow .... you complaining or bragging ... smilin j/k .. thats really good .. but no you dont have to do anything .... do what you feel .. there are no rules to anything really in life .... unless you make a rule and say i have to do this ...or that ... or something else but everything is ultimately up to you and it should be ..... have a blessed day
@UmiNoor (4483)
• Malaysia
19 Aug 09
I think that it's just polite and good manners to respond to other people's comments but at times it's not necessary like when the commenter was just making a statement and not asking any questions of you. But if a question is posed to you then it's just good manners to answer back. After all you're the host and you don't want your guests to think that they're talking to themselves, do you? (This is just a rhetorical question. Need no answer.)
@divkris (1156)
• India
19 Aug 09
i do agree withthe justification but i simply get a huge number of people responding to the discussion (and i'm not complaining about it - i'm happy that way) but it so happended that i was stuck with some work and now the number has soared to 50 and i have 3 such discussions. I think for a couple of days i should fix myself up to reply back than commenting on posts :)
@mith018 (57)
• India
19 Aug 09
I feel that it depends on your time..if you have time to reply all then there can be no problem..
• United States
19 Aug 09
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@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
27 Aug 09
Put it this way...if you asked a question or said something to someone's face and they responded to you would you then ignore them or would you talk about things. That's what myLot is about. To ignore someone is rude but if they are repeating what someone else has already said then I think it's ok to give them a miss.
@amirev777 (4117)
• India
15 Feb 11
Hi I would not say it is necessary to respond back to every comment that you receive for your discussion, but i think that it is quite courteous to do so. I make it a point to respond to almost all the responses that i get for the discussions that i have started. Even if there is not much to say, i still thank them for responding.
@abhaijith (2963)
• India
19 Aug 09
Its not necessary.I think its a good habit.It makes your discussion active in my opinion.On seeing the comments that you given to all the responses for your discussion,the people who are just visiting your discussion topic tends to respond to the discussion.Commenting also makes your discussion highlighted in your friends home pages.So you will get more responses for your discussions. Happy Mylotting.
@divkris (1156)
• India
19 Aug 09
Hey, i did not know that posting back will bring the discussion up inthe list! Hmmm let me try it with my older posts. Thanks for sharing this good tip :)
• United States
22 Aug 09
I don't think so, I guess sometimes.
@dlr297 (5409)
• United States
23 Aug 09
It is good to respond to the people that take part in your discussions, that way they know that you read their replies. and it also adds to your earnings each time you do. I do not believe that you absolutely have to if you do not wish to. Their are some people that will not come back to your other discussions if you do not make replies,they feel it is a waste of their time. It is good that you have a good friends list that is being loyal to you. and if you do not feel in the spirit to respond they will understand,
@K46620 (1986)
• United States
22 Aug 09
It is not necessary but I try to do it anyways, I rarely get a 3rd response though, so I guess I just do it for the extra money.
• India
26 Aug 09
Well, it depends on the response you get!!. In the beginning the discussion does get on well, later on, somehow, most discussions tend to get deviated and boring with repetitive comments. I do try to respond to most of the comments I receive. But, as soon as I get a whiff of deviation, I stop looking at that discussion.
@adnileb (5256)
• Philippines
15 Feb 11
In some case, you have to respond specially to the ones who commented with effort. I mean, they seriously like your discussion and they posted nice and worthy comments. Or in some case, just to acknowledge their response.
@sharra1 (6340)
• Australia
21 Aug 09
It is a matter of personal preference. I usually respond to everyone but it may take me a long time to get to all of them. Initially I respond to a couple and I keep going back and responding to new ones and occasionally old ones. There are times it has taken me a month or more to find the time to respond to most people. On the other hand I do not like discussions where the author never comes back and never responds to anyone. It makes me wonder why did this person write the discussion if they were not interested in the answers. Maybe they just wanted to make some money and did not care about the answers. When this happens I do not respond to that persons discussions ever again. One other point is that every time you reply to a post on your discussion it brings it back to the top of the list and other people see it who may not have seen it when it was first done. I sometimes get responses months later as a result of this. After all there are so many discussions around that if no one responds quickly or you only get 1 or 2 then the discussion gets buried and lots of people never see it.
@veejay19 (3589)
• India
21 Aug 09
Frankly i do not post many discussions and i have seen that when i do post some i get very few responses. I smetimes go through them and reply to those which i find most interesting. I don`t sit on the pc for a long time, in fact just for and hour and a half every day, so i only respond if neccessary. Mostly i respond to discussions and don`t rack my brains trying to conjure out a discussion.
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
21 Aug 09
In my opinion, my friend. You need to response all comments in your discussion to show that you welcome their opinion and views what you say and what you think about? If you can't do so. I don't think they participate in your discussion in second place. Another thing is that if we response all the comments on the discussion we started we found out more unbelievable things and we can learn from members opinion and views. There and then we got ranks and for the best discussion we make. We can also note that our discussion is interesting to someone. If we cannot response, how can we say that our discussion is interact people minds and learn a little in it? For me my friend. I suggest that you must response all the comments to show courteous and politeness for members shown respect for you and believe with your opinion also...have a great day!
• Philippines
21 Aug 09
No, it is not necessary but you can if you need to ask further questions based on the response or provide additional points. After all, it IS a discussion so full participation is essential. But you won't be getting any earnings from it, as the FAQ indicates and there is nothing in here that would penalize you for not responding. But when you come to think of it, what's the whole point of starting the discussion anyway?
@quita88 (3715)
• United States
20 Aug 09
No, i don't think it's necessary to respond back. I don't. I read it , if I think it's not worthy of my time, like it's stupid ! I don't respond back. some of the questions and comments on here don't make a lick of sense in the first place, so answer back ? I have only been in mylot about a month but I have made freinds and we talk about things that are of our interests. That is why we respond back. I don't answer simply for the money I'm supposed to make. I answer cuz I really have something to say. Do as you want, but I answered this one cuz I thought it was worthy of my time !
• Boston, Massachusetts
21 Aug 09
hello divkris! it is but proper to respond to those who made their efforts to comment on our discussions. that gesture shows that we acknowledge and we too are thankful for sharing their piece of their thoughts and feelings about our topic. this will also inspire them to write more because people like us aprreciate their views. so, guys be kind enough to respond!