Do u think Friendship is the first step for love?

August 28, 2009 1:09pm CST
i really cant understand...........who r just friends now are later lovers.......how can anyone see a friend like a lover........does anyone of u have friends who r now lovers.......
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@tintukm (1084)
• India
28 Aug 09
most of the cases in the live of the people which has started love in then may be of started by them being good friends and then friends forever resulting in true loves that can be seen in both the people from time to to being friends.Friendship marks birth of love or it can end up just as friendships ,most do not end that way but give a new start as love.
@rmuxagirl (7561)
• United States
28 Aug 09
I think friendship is the first step towards love. When you are friends with someone there is a level of comfort and sometimes as you get to know a person through friendship your feelings for them may increase and blossom into love. I have been friends with a guy for a while now, and my feelings for him started to develop into more romantic ones. Friendships can lead to more.
• Philippines
28 Aug 09
My style is that I always declare that I am courting a girl and then make friends friends with her, that way it is clear to her that I am interested to her and she may think if I am can be her boyfriend or no. Because sometimes girls are turned off with guys that are befriending them then at the end they will court and that is like dishonesty to some girls.
@Hatley (164392)
• Garden Grove, California
28 Aug 09
mehereswaroop wow what a name hi yes I cannot imagine not'being friends with the man who makes love with you. would you be able' to even respond sexually if you didnt like the man you love.the' two things do go togethere whether you think so or not. imagine'being married to a man whom you can confide anything even the big boo boo you just made.for example say you were working gardening near his'new car and you Accidently dented a fender while using a shovel. could you tell your husband what happened without him getting furious? well if you are best friends yes you could,he might not say oh thats okay but'he will be civil and he will not hurt you. a best friend who is your husband is a real treasure.
@sameroad (3180)
• United States
28 Aug 09
i think friendship is a great way to start off a love. its easy for friends to become lovers. lovers are after all friends too so its easy to see how friends can become that way with each other. you know each other and have fun together. your there for one another. those all things lovers do too. i like starting off as friends first. it lets you get to know a person better without any pleasure. i have a friend who i got lovey with and shes probably the only girl i've ever really trusted for felt anything real for.. and thats because we've been friends for years. shes always liked me and i feel comfortable around her. so when she came at me. it just felt right and natural. you can't have a relationship if you don't have a friendship with at person as well.