Fan made an attempt at suicide for idol's marrige

China
August 30, 2009 4:39am CST
Recently there is a report about that a woman fan want to kill herself by hearing that her idol has been married for sevevral years,the idol has disguised the fact many years,because he is afraid that it will affect the fan's feeling and his cause,so he keeps the secret several years till it is exposed recently.what do you think about the fan and the idot?should an idot disguise his/her marrige to public?looking forward your comment...
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5 responses
@thokius (426)
• Austria
30 Aug 09
Hello monica7083, I think that it is always good to hide some things from the public. Too much information and they'll start doing things like that. But on the other hand when they find out they would feel betrayed by the idol for not telling them early enough. I think that in both cases the idol will win and lose something. It's up to him/her to make a strategy. Cheers! Thok
• China
30 Aug 09
hi,thokius,thanks your comment,it is right that the idol will win and lose some thing,maybe disguising the fact had brought benefit to him,but the disadvantage will done to him too.all fans feel deceived by him,maybe he will lose part fans at last.
@thokius (426)
• Austria
31 Aug 09
Yes. You are right. Sociaty is a complex creature...
@trisha27 (3494)
• United States
8 Jun 10
Hi, I think that he should have never tried to disguise his marriage and tried to keep it from the public. In my opinion though, I also believe that that woman needs some serious help. Seriously.
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
5 Nov 09
That's the price of being a celebrity I guess, there are people going gaga over you and you can't have peace when you want it. I don't really know the actors or idol you were talking about so I don't know why he needed to keep his marriage. Perhaps it's because of a valid reason. Not to mention, he has the right to do so, his life is his and he doesn't need to spill the information so as everybody would know. I think he just didn't see his marriage as something the people should know about. As for those types of fans, I'd say "GET A LIFE!".
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
8 Jun 10
Hi, monica7083. That is a shame that an idol had to hide his marriage from a fan. If someone was obsessed with me, I would hide my personal life away. This fan knows that the idol does not want anything to do with them. This fan has their own life and the idol needs to understand this and get over it. I could never become obsessed with a fan. I would never allow myself to get this way.
@kush20006 (515)
• India
4 Nov 09
this is not a fan with three blades of intelligence in his or her in mind