when you find a good friend betrays you,what you will do ?

China
September 3, 2009 6:04am CST
in our life ,we will find nobody is perfect,include your best friend,i just want to know what you will do when you find a good friend betrays you? try to express yourself
8 responses
@SuzyLong (775)
3 Sep 09
I've just lost one of my so called best friends because she has betrayed me as a friend. She had a go at me on Facebook for no reason what so ever and tried to make me look like an unreliable friend when I'm not. But because she did it so publicly on facebook, all my friends that knew it wasn't true backed me up. I have now completely cut her out of my life starting on facebook, I've blocked her and put the whole conversation in a note so everyone can see it. I was meant to be helping her plan her wedding as she didn't have a clue so now she has to do it all herself. Because of her attitude, she lost all of her other friends so she only has her fiancee. I was the only person who ever asked her to go out and now she won't have that either. I don't feel bad for her at all, she's done this to herself.
• China
4 Sep 09
everyone have to take the result of what he or she has done,i think you have do every thing you should do as a friend ,it is your friend's fault,she loses a good friend like you ,it's her loss
@SuzyLong (775)
4 Sep 09
Thank you, I'm still getting messages from my friends saying that she doesn't deserve me as a friend so I'm just going to see how long it takes for her to come back begging because when she does, I'm not taking her back. She's gone.
@maxilimian (3099)
• Indonesia
4 Sep 09
If you find your friend betrayed you, it means that he/she is not your friend, especially best friend that you thought before, there are no friend want to betraye their own friends, only the enemy did
• China
4 Sep 09
hello maxilimian,maybe there are some reasons,not all friends want to betray their friends,if he or she has to do harm to me for some reasons, forgiveness should be given.this is just my opinion.
@roshline (25)
• Netherlands Antilles
3 Sep 09
hallo my name is:Roosje. I know that anyone is not perfect but I will tell what i think. Someone how his betrays you must have a reason. but you have to look at the reason if the are good of bad. if it is a bad reason I will forgive him because every one have to be forgivening and we are not God to judge anyone and if is a good reason I will forgive him. because friend are in good and bad moments.
• China
4 Sep 09
i am happy to hear that you will forgive you friend,in real life you must do every thing well to your friends
@gunagohan (3414)
• India
23 Sep 09
nobody is perfect, this is competitive world, even ur best friend will push u down to climb the ladder, so there is nothing to worry ...in my case, if my true friend betrays me, i will say he has got more talents than me, that is why i am betrayed by him... i have lost my girlie to one of my close friend, i had the heat for months, but later i confessed that i am not perfect for that girl and that guy got more talents than me, this what happening in this world, and in true cases, i will do the same when i am getting a chance... i do what i get to others...
• Philippines
4 Sep 09
yes your right, no one is perfect. maybe i can forgive them but the trust will never be the same again. i have a lot of friends who used to be like that, betrayed me specially with my boyfriend. telling lies to ruin our relationship. maybe because i trust them so much. but i learned my lesson. my personal life is mine and theres a space or wall with it. none of my friends can touch it. they might know things as i will tell them or whats going on but never that i will tell them to talk to my boyfriend if we have problem or talk to my boyfriend for a reason.
• India
3 Sep 09
What can I do? I can't go and fight with him because i thought him to be a good friend.Even though he betrayed me I cannot go and fight with him.I will just take it as a lesson and never calls him again... Friends come and go.we cannot fight with everyone who betrays us..Its better to leave him and go on
@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
3 Sep 09
oh i am very straight up and honest with my friends
@dhawanbm (3705)
• India
3 Sep 09
bad friend, he should be not called ever??