how to educate children?

@wangkai (798)
China
September 4, 2009 3:29am CST
hello everyone on the mylot.have you been married?have you had your children?if you have had your children,then i wonder how to educate your children.i have two chioldren.one is girl and the other is boy.they often fight each other.i do not know how to do.if you have a good method,then please tell me of it.thank you.happy mylot.
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5 responses
@zandi458 (27952)
• Malaysia
4 Sep 09
Children are imitators. By our good actions and well mannered behavior, we are showing them good examples and they will learn from what they see. Instill religious teaching to them when they are still young so they grow up god fearing and this minimize our time in controlling them when they reach their rebellious age.
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@wangkai (798)
• China
4 Sep 09
i know your meanings.thank you.
@byfaithonly (10716)
• United States
6 Sep 09
Well, my children are all grown and have grandchildren now but I would have to say the best way to teach children is by example. Encourage them to enjoy reading by letting them see you read and reading to them. Don't fight or argue, be kind to others, smile - kids learn from the people around them so not just you but all the people they come in contact with should be good examples.
• Trinidad And Tobago
5 Sep 09
Children will fight especially brother/sister what is important is the manner in which the situation is resolved. There must be no show of favouritism if you should decide to correct the situation.. Identify the reason for the fight if it is a toy remove it with the instruction that brothers and sisters must play together they should be encouraged to share love of brother/sister should be stressed. You can try playing with them showing that if used together it would be "more fun". Parenting is self taught because no book has been printed with your child in mind. They offer suggestions that may or may not work for your child you talk alot evern at a young age and reason out the best solution to the problem you would be surprised they most times have a solution to the problem. Once solved hugs and kisses allround they must make up hugs are important brother/sister "I am sorry" and we move on to the next one that will occur when the process is repeated all over. Most of all you must show that you love them equally. Hope this helps. Blessings.
@gelibean (159)
• United States
5 Sep 09
I have a son he's 7 months old. I keep him entertained and that keeps him from getting into things he shouldn't be messing with. We read together , play with his toys, and watch educational kids programs on tv. It keeps him happy and gives me less to worry about.
@wyz388 (119)
• China
4 Sep 09
oh ,wangkai,i have no children and i do not know how to response it.good lucky to you,too.