That person is Successful!

@laydee (12798)
Philippines
September 11, 2009 4:11am CST
We all have our own judgment about someone regardless if we mean or it's just subconsciously, but indeed we do judge everyone every time. A person who dresses poorly and looks dirty would always be seen as someone poor, on the other hand, someone who dresses nicely and looks 'clean' will always be branded as rich. How do you ever judge or assume that a person is rich? What must a person have or do in order to be branded 'rich' for you?
4 responses
• India
11 Sep 09
Hello Friend, By 'rich', if you only mean material riches, then I am not for this discussion. Real riches should mean a reasonable amount of material wealth plus a much more resonable amount of spiritual richness. This right blend only can ensure lasting happiness for the person concerned as well as for those around him. He should spend reasonable amount of money for the wellbeing of himself, his family members and the friends and relatives. Simply hoarding the money and fattening one's bank balance does not deserve to be called riches in the real sense of the term. Money should properly spent for the benefit and enjoyment of the maximum number of people. Another clear indication that he is really rich is shown by his constant display of a smiling face. Cheers is real riches. Let us spread cheer all around. It doesn't cost much but makes everyone feel rich.
@sandymay16 (1617)
• Philippines
11 Sep 09
Yes right we judge a person wrongfully I say when what we have at the back of our minds the stereotypes of what a person would be. In this case judging by his outerwear or looks. I remembered when I was in grade school when my mom would say that don't judge a person who is very dirty or posing like a beggar, he maybe an undercover person searching for someone. Being subjective would be, a rich person who drives an expensive car with expensive looking dress. Objectively, this person maybe rich in looks but this person might have lots of debts. LOL And the old rich don't flaunt what they've got.
@med889 (5941)
11 Sep 09
One thing I learn in life is to never be a judge as we do not have this right to judge others in life. So I only admire people who are proud of themselves and then work hard to find a way to reach success.
@m_rose06 (35)
• Philippines
11 Sep 09
Judging a person objectively is very shallow reason for you to say what is his/her status in life either rich or poor. Judging a person could be in a negative or positive way. For me there is no criteria when to say a person is rich or poor. People can be look like a rich or poor with the way she/he dresses. You can never can tell if she/he has a bank accounts, credit cards, business or owns a firm etc. when all your basis is what you sees in her/him, unless you'll try to figure his/her profile/ family background.