Tips for a happy married life

@biman_s (1060)
India
September 14, 2009 11:31am CST
I am 21 now, but I am planning to get married very soon. But getting married and living a happy life is not quite easy all the time. Can you give me tips for a happy married life. If you have an experience then share it here.
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@arthi_88 (1516)
• India
14 Sep 09
I will be 21 next month but don't plan to get married soon until and unless I am completely prepared to do so..but being in a relationship I can say that the tip to happiness in a relationship is mutual respect and love which must be unconditional..having the capability to forgive and to overlook the bad points for the good ones makes it a happy life..None of us are perfect- remembering this helps a lot in my case..Have a nice day!
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@arthi_88 (1516)
• India
17 Sep 09
Thanks and all the best to you for your future..
@biman_s (1060)
• India
15 Sep 09
You are right knowing that everyone can make a mistake does help in a lot of cases. Thank you for your response.
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• Mexico
15 Sep 09
to be happy in marriage, communication is very important, if you have a disagreement, tell them with your partner, but donĀ“t yell, just talk, expresses your feelings, always aiming to progress in the relationship, the communication is very impotant. trust is another important factor, do not be afraid to say things are cincere and do not lie or hide things, trust your partner.
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@biman_s (1060)
• India
15 Sep 09
Thank you for your response and welcome to the mylot community.
• United States
14 Sep 09
I would say the best thing to do is remember what it was like when you fell in love. If you are fighting and think about that then it will help you make it through. Try and keep the bedroom life as active as possible. Spice it up when it starts to get dull. When they comes home have a little surprise waiting for them. Write lil love notes to put in their lunch or send them a text just to tell them you love them.
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@biman_s (1060)
• India
15 Sep 09
You are right, its good to spice things up often. Thank you for your response
@Tantrums (945)
• Philippines
14 Sep 09
I was 22 when I got married, make sure when that you are ready for everything. There's no turning back or U-turns. Well, I'm still happily married (and it will stay that way), the advise I can give you... Don't blame each other if something goes wrong. And one more thing too, avoid looking at her father's eyes (just kidding). My wifes' father served in the British navy, dang he's scares me during the courting years.
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@biman_s (1060)
• India
15 Sep 09
Just scared me for a second. Thank you for your response
@taztheone (1721)
• India
14 Sep 09
Happy Married life - Happy life
I would like to say that the main things which you should have for a happy life is Understanding, Caring, Respect & Love. If you have all these factors positive in your married life, then I'm sure that your marriage will be really successful. Many at times even the lack of compatibility can be overcome by these factors. Happy Lotting
@biman_s (1060)
• India
15 Sep 09
Thank you for your response.
• United States
14 Sep 09
Talk things through, keep life from becoming routine even if that means deciding at last moment to go for a walk or to the beach and always let them decide how to deal with their family and ignore anything they may say about you. Your relationship with spouse is more important then what they think or say.
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@biman_s (1060)
• India
14 Sep 09
Spending time with each other and getting to know each other, it is a very good advice. Thanks for your response.
• India
15 Sep 09
There are no as such tips to lead a happy married life but initially both must tery to adapt to themselves and in case there is any relationship issues, it must be sorted out effectively by communicating among themselves.If there is keen love between the two then both will overlook each other's mistakes.
@biman_s (1060)
• India
15 Sep 09
A different view. I like it. Thanks for your response.