How long have u been not crying

@kun2349 (23381)
Singapore
September 17, 2009 12:13pm CST
HOw long have u been suppressing the tears inside of u?? Even though when they are on the verge of dropping, yet, we dun allow it.. For me, it's been almost years since i last really cry out loud.. Till recently, i watched some really sad scenes in a show, which almost make me wanna cry, but i din again.. I suppressed it further when i know it's not healthy to do so.. hehe ^_^ BUt i believe, the day will come soon, for me to burst out crying, as my tears are swelling up very easily, with very little little simple touching or sad scenarios.. haha =D
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@ckyera (17332)
• Philippines
18 Sep 09
haha...and when is that day? hehe well, as for me, i think i am not good in suppressing my tears...coz i really cry hen i feel like coz it gives me pain on my heart when i try to suppress it...and the more i stop it the more will i burst to crying! huh! the past week is full of tears for me...its a very sad week for us... but the really last time that i try suppressing my tears which i don't succeed was when i was reading my brother's letter to her ex-girlfriend! huh! and that was last week also...
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@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
18 Sep 09
WOw, u really cried alot last weel huh?? Is it enough to cry me a river then?? hehe BUt at least, u managed to cry, and release everything in u.. IT's always better to be more emotional, as compared to trying to act cool, as if nothing happens.. haha =D Because u will be leading a much more happier life, without putting on a false front!! As for me, maybe, u will write me a letter with the same content, and i will cry too?? hehe
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
19 Sep 09
Cried to the extend of having no more tears!! That's way too much to waste!! hehe ^_^ BUt no matter what, as long as u get to cry your heart out, only to feel beter after that, it's good enough!! hehe MAybe, your tears might even have formed the sea even.. hehe U are right in saying that too.. Especially in times whereby there are ple whom needs our support, and we are their pillar of strength, thus we have to control ^_^ hehe WEH!! lol =D I wont wanna have a letter like that too.. I will prefer to have one, full of love in it, and about me, coming, rather than leaving.. hehe
@ckyera (17332)
• Philippines
19 Sep 09
hehe, i just don't know if its enough to cry you a river...but all i remember is that there's one time last week that i feel like my tears are already drained! huh! its like, my heart keeps crying and i am really crying but the tears...no more tears are coming out my eyes! huh! but anyway, after that moment, i feel really relieved and better... well, yes its good to show the real feelings but there are also time that i have to suppress myself from crying...hehe depends on the situation, coz there are times that we really need to appear strong in front of other people or in front of our loved ones for them to be stronger also...especially when we are the one where they get some strength... i don't like to give you a letter with the same content like what what my brother wrote...coz its too emotional and its about letting go...haha
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@ahgong (10064)
• Singapore
10 Nov 09
ha ha ha ha ha... and here I thought I was the only one doing that when watching a touching scene in a TV show or a movie. It happens to me sometimes when I am listening to music as well. ha ha ha ha ha... I just try to hide it by yawning a lot to cover up. Not manly to be seen dropping tears so easily lah. You know...
@ahgong (10064)
• Singapore
11 Nov 09
Yeah... I cannot tahan the teasing as well. So yawning helps. Yeah. Music too. The one that always bring the tears is the song in Boston Public, sang by Tamy Gray "Dance with my father again". 8p
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@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
11 Nov 09
lol =D Listening to music as well?!?! I din know that there are still man, whom are so sensitive?? hehe ^_^ U must be a very rare man, and your wife is very lucky to have u instead.. haha It's really not manly to be seen crying or maybe with tears welling up in the eyes.. hehe ^_^ Especially being teased by your wife whenever she remembers it.. lol =D
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@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
11 Nov 09
haha =D Yawning can only help in the short term.. ONce she sees thru your little trick, u will be in for more teasing.. lol =D OH, so that's the singer!! I like the song as well, and i spent almost 3 years to find out about the song name and singer!! hehe That song is sad, but nice, especially the way both music and lyrics go together
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@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
2 Feb 10
Hi kun!^^ What show did you watch that made you cry? I didn't know you cry over sad movies. LOL Reminds mo an old song of the Carpenters. ^^ I just cried last night. Not because of something that happened to me or related to me. I cried over a Japanese movie (Rookies: Graduation). When I'm watching a dramatic scene I don't really suppress my tears. I just let them flow.^^ It's good for my eyes. ^.~ Hmmm.. and then, the last time I cried over something that happened to me, like really cried that I needed to confine myself in the bathroom, was in 2008. Whenever I remember it I feel so stupid and silly. I can't believe I cried that way for something that I told myself I will never cry over with.^^;; Oh well. We eat our own words sometimes.
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@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
2 Feb 10
Well, maybe not promised. But tell myself that as much as possible, do not cry on things like that because it's not cool.^^ Just smile and let it go but get even first. LOL That's what cool people do. ^.~
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@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
3 Feb 10
lol =D Whatever it is, cry at the appropriate times, and only do it to feel better.. hehe ^_^ THere's no use to keep in under control, only to burst out loud, when it's not controllable anymore.. hehe ^_^
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
2 Feb 10
hehe ^_^ well, i'm just quite a sensitive guy, whom will cry over sad movies or touching scenes.. hehe ^_^ I can control it well too, and if i cant cry, there's no way to make me cry.. lol =D I'm just like u!! But i will control it, if i'm in public though, for it's not nice to let others see me tearing.. hehe ^_^ haha =D all i know is that, never make promises about never to cry again, as that's the most stupidest thing to do ever!! hehe
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@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
18 Sep 09
It's been awhile since I've cried. Like really cry. But it's not so long ago that I had a tear or two trickled past me. I watched this charity show and my heart was really bended into pieces. I couldn't take it, my heart wrenched seeding the sharing and giving spirit of others that I had 1 tear trickled by. My heart was touched. I think it's necessary to have this compassion spirit, I think we can do with that.. ha..
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@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
18 Sep 09
YEah, i'm referring to really having a good cry out loud.. hehe ^_^ It's been a long long time for me as well.. hehe ^_^ As for those touching kinda tearing, i have experienced it frequently.. lol =D JUst that i control it, and did not end up with a hard cry.. hehe ^_^ Because once one starts to weep, and been suppressing for too long, a waterfall is bound to appear, right before our eyes.. lol =D
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
25 Sep 09
lol =D LEt is happen naturallty then.. maybe u are having quite a good comfortable life, and thus u wont be crying hard any moment, or in the near future.. hehehe
@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
25 Sep 09
I'm waiting for that waterfall to happen to me too...... The wait is so dreadful, haha.. I wanna see it happen, but I don't wanna see it.. How can..^^
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@sasalove (1709)
• China
20 Nov 09
Well, I am the girl who would not like to let the temper out with the tears. As a matter of fact, I envy those who can burst out crying from their heart as it is a good way to get rid of the negative emotion in heart. If the bad mood is accumulated too much in heart and can not find ways to let them out, it will bad for health. My tears is not developed, though I met the most touching scene, I could not cry out loud. Sometimes I am just angry for my tears on the verge of dropping, but could not make a drop to my face.
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@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
20 Nov 09
YEah, being able to cry is a kind of priviledge.. For it will make one feel better after crying.. Maybe your tear ducts are not meant for those touching scenes, or maybe, u have been thru something even more sad, thus u are slightly immune now.. hehe
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
22 Nov 09
Good for u ^_^ And thanks for the response ^_^ HAve a nice day ahead ^_^
@sasalove (1709)
• China
22 Nov 09
Hi Kun,Yes, you are correct. I have ever cried sadly twice in my life and feel hurt badly. But except for those twice, I seldom cried. I think the proper reason is that I have immune system for the sad things already. Have a nice day.
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• India
15 Mar 10
Hello, I haven't been crying since I was in 10th grade. I remember crying when my parents scolded me for staying out late and that was the last time I cried. As the time went by I learned that crying won't help anything. I had a realization that enduring pain actually enhances the ability to tolerate adverse situations. I sometimes voluntarily put myself in difficult situations to test my spirit and in the process, I've somehow forgot how to cry. I don't cry anymore but I do frown. But I smile and laugh a lot. God bless you
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@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
16 Mar 10
haha =D MAybe, u are too strong for those kind of emtions ^_^
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
15 Mar 10
WHy?? crying is a form of venting for frustrations!! Crying does not make one weak, but instead, it makes one stronger, and have the courage to brave up to reality ^_^
• India
15 Mar 10
Well, may be then I don't have that kinda strong frustration
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@cream97 (29087)
• United States
12 Dec 09
Hi, kun2349. I don't normally burst into tears. But, I have cried this month when my husband cursed and said that my son did not need his coat that morning. I was very hurt when he did that. I cried when he left. I just shed some tears..
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@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
16 Dec 09
WHat really happened?? I guess that must be really hurting and hurtful, and the ones closest to us, started cursing and swaearing at us, when we are supposed to be protected by them Hopefully, he had already expressed his regret and apologizes to u and your son now
@thaMARKER (2503)
• Philippines
3 Sep 10
it's been a while but i have had a lot of teary eyed moments for the past few days. yes, i'm sad. it's been a while a now. im always trying to smile just to get through the day. the last time i cried so hard that i cant almost breath was 2months ago. i got so upset because there is this one thing i want to happen but no matter how i try, it just won't come out right. until now actually i'm still trying to figure it out. but hey.. life goes on...
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@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
7 Sep 10
Dun give up too easily. There will always be solutions to things. If u cant solve it on your own, get help ^_^ Crying is only a way for u to vent frustrations, and allowing us the extra space we need inside of us to stay motivated ^_^ Thus it's good to cry, but after whcih, move on in life ^_^
@seymiss (622)
18 Sep 09
Hi there It's been a while since i havent cried i keep suppressing the tears but i know they would soon burst out one way or another soon because to many things has been happening and ive been so emotional lately so i better prepare a bucket cuz i know iam going to cry a river cheers~
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@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
18 Sep 09
Well well, u better let it all out soon.. Because that will affect your mood directly, and u will feel better after that ^_^ IT's always all right to cry, and if u are embarassed, cry in one corner then ^_^
@iamfine (740)
• China
1 Oct 09
hello kun, to tell the truth, I think I am very independance and independant women do not cry often, i am very good at control my feeling and whenever I want to cry, I would control it. it has been a long time since the last time I cry. The last time I cried was because of my relationship with my boyfriend, we were about to break up with each other, I can't help crying, but not loudly. After I broke up with him, I fall sick the next day, and he knows this, he know that I am alone in this city nobody would take care of me, so he come to take me to the hospital, and later he took care of me till I recover.
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@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
2 Oct 09
Well, when it comes to emotions, or maybe relationships, tears are always hard to control, because of the love involved ^_^ Everybody is entitled to cry, but oen has got to know, when to stop and be carrying on in life ^_^ Hopefully, u have gotten over him now ^_^
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@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
8 Oct 09
YEah, nice comparison u have got here ^_^ AFter all, everything needs time, to heal, to recover, or even build ^_^ SO long u manage to get over it, and also moving on in life, that will be good ^_^
@iamfine (740)
• China
3 Oct 09
thank you for response. yeah, I have get over that emotional hurt, but when I think about the happy memorries and sorrow memorries, i still feel something in my heart. But the feeling of breaking up with someone is just like catching a cold, if feel hard to beath, you feel that hard to live through, but after drinking more warm water, after your more sleeping, you will one day find that, you have recovered from that cold. Love is the same.
@kevinll (967)
• China
22 Dec 09
I almost forget the crying last time, it has been many years, I ofen keep it, even if it can fall down at once. I do not know why, i just do not want crying. I think i should cry at the right time and do not control it.
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@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
23 Dec 09
U should cry once in a while ^_^ It's good for u, and better to let go of one's sadness, unhappiness ^_^ Go ahead and cry it out!!
@loneraver (331)
17 Oct 09
I cant remember da las time i cried it was probably when i was a kid ive been supressing for years even though ive had screwed up relationships etc that have deserved a propa cry but i just wont let it happen i think ive done it so many times it just seems natural to supress!
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
19 Oct 09
It's never good to be suppressing one's feelings.. Crying is a form of release and one will feel better after that.. If one does not release all the bad feelings in them, they will tend to feel frustrated more easily, an also causing stress to ple around them..
• United Arab Emirates
14 Apr 10
I have been crying since a month cause of my family and my faince, am going through a really hard time these days! Do sad scences makes you cry?? well they make me cry too but if its more then an emotional scene lol
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@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
15 Apr 10
Crying for a month?? That's way too serious!! Try to be strong!! NOthing is unsolvable in life.. Crying is part of venting your emotions, and after which u need to solve what's bothering u
• Portugal
5 Sep 10
well sure guys never like to show they cry ahah thats why you surpress your tears but you shouldnt do that like you say^^ also is so cute when a guy cries^^ i just want to grab him and kiss him nonstop ahah is like we want to cuddle ahah^^ i know is very crazy but is true a guy cries is cutest thing^^ anyway me i cry so so easy^^ even if people argue a bit with me sometimes i start crying already^^ is just my personality im too too sensitive :)
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@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
7 Sep 10
It's ok to cry, so long as we are reflecting what we feel, rather than faking on an act to gain sympathy.. haha =D Guys crying might be cute to some, but it's the men's ego that's preventing us from crying out loud in public.. haha
• Philippines
29 Mar 10
The last time I cried was last night. I missed my friend. He's in India. I'm in Philippines. I was drunk last night. I cry always, I'm not afraid to do so.
• Philippines
30 Mar 10
That's right! I'm really missing him. I don't know how to contact him.
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
2 Apr 10
When there's a way, u will be able to find some somehow, or rather, he will contact u first ^_^
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
30 Mar 10
Seems like that friend is very close to u huh?? Well, u can always be contacting him or vice versa ^_^ Absence makes the heart fonder, and when u see him again, the frienship will become stronger than ever ^_^
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@marguicha (215470)
• Chile
17 Sep 09
Laughter and tears are part of us. You should not be afraid to show your emotions: it will make you a more loveble person. Some people are afraid to touch, to caress. We should all try to learn it. Let it go! Take care!
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@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
18 Sep 09
YEah, u are right.. BUt there will always be times whereby we try to suppress.. Especially in front of family members or whoever, and that we are crying for no reason.. lol =D