do you think its right for young people to?

United States
September 18, 2009 8:59pm CST
i do because i'm young with a baby and me and my soon to be husban is ready to get married now and its harder to get things we need due to not being married what do you think
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@xiarra23 (12)
• United States
19 Sep 09
I don't think you should get married simply because you can get things while you're married that you can't get being single. There are also certain things you can't get being married that you can get being single. Marriage should be for love. A public declaration of your commitment to one another and not for the sake of getting things. But I am sure that you two are well aware of this. Just stick it out and be there for each other and everything will fall into place.
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• United States
19 Sep 09
we are very much in love and can't wait to be married we been together alittle over a year and got a family but the getting thigs for our daughter we cant get alot that she needs because of not being married
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• United States
19 Sep 09
What could you not get?? I've been a single parent for a year and a half until I found the right man to marry and my daughter never went without anything because of all the government programs set in place for single parents or unmarried parents such as ourselves. It's all a matter of looking I guess but I'm glad you know you want to get married. Not too many people can deal with marriage at all.
• United States
22 Sep 09
there some things but it can get better i guess im happy and thats all that matters but i think someone should have there own choice to get married when they want in these deals
@Hatley (164654)
• Garden Grove, California
19 Sep 09
hi Why on earth dont young people now days get married first'and then have a baby? thats the way its been done for many years and there'are damned good reasons for doing this this way. sure its not'frowned on anymore having a babyout of wedlock, but still you are'now finding that its easier if you marry first and then get pregnant. sure some marriages break up so what? a lot of nonmarriages break up every few months and couples play revolving doors and have babies with five different guys.
• United States
19 Sep 09
no all people aren't like that and people shouldn't judge what they dont go through alot work hard
• United States
19 Sep 09
There is no real reason why young people don't just get married first. The one that comes to mind is just simple circumstances. There's alot of us that never really got the education we needed on the subject, or ignored it thinking they just knew everything and that "it couldn't happen to them". All I can say is people just have to roll with the times and either do something about it or just let people be.