I Think She Already Had Plans To Dump Me

United States
September 21, 2009 1:48am CST
So I was dating this girl and we both came to the agreement that we were boyfriend and girlfriend. She's two years younger than me, so she's still in high school and we never saw each other during the week. We mostly talked on the phone/emailed during the week and got together on the weekends if neither of us was busy. Things had been going good, or at least I thought that they were. One day I had some family issues to come up and I was so stressed out that I didn't get a chance to call her. So the next day I went to her facebook page and saw that she was in a relationship, but it wasn't with me. I called and asked her about it and she made a big stink about me neglecting her and that I never call her. I told her that I missed one day and asked her to be honest and tell me if she had been dating this guy behind my back the entire time. She got even angrier and started yelling. I wasn't in the mood to argue so I hung up the phone. I think she was planning on breaking up with me the whole time and used me not calling her ONE TIME as an excuse. What do you think?
2 responses
@donsky14 (5963)
• Philippines
21 Sep 09
Well, I think your stating the obvious..and you can't just really get a boyfriend in a day right? I mean, with what your saying...you weren't able to call her for a day, and poof she already has a different boyfriend. Most likely they've been dating while you guys are together.
• United States
21 Sep 09
That's what I told her. I told her to be honest and admit that she had been seeing the guy behind my back and she kept dodging it and changing the subject. I'm not the smartest guy, but I can tell when someone is trying to run game on me.
@donsky14 (5963)
• Philippines
22 Sep 09
Don't worry dude, you'll definitely find someone else better than her.
@soulist (2986)
• United States
23 Sep 09
I agree I mean you cannot be in a relationship over night. I mean you generally go on a few dates before you say you're in a relationship. I think your instincts are right especially if she keeps fighting it and dodging the subject.
@piya84 (2589)
• India
22 Sep 09
@ShortyAkbar It seems she wasnt committed to you or wasnt in love with you.I have doubt she was finding one reason to dump you and move on.I guess she is not mature enough.I know..:D from my own experience.If she isnt in to you. she should have told you some thing like she isnt in love with you or our relationship lack spark to dump you.Speaking truth and being blunt actually hurt less that breaking up by giving some silly reason.