am i to old any more

United States
October 4, 2009 9:05am CST
i lost my spouce a year ago and i went out with some friends last night we went to a bar and was just watchng people but i fell bad because there was a band and men everywhere but not one of them ask me to dance am i to old any more and where do you go after your 50 to meet someone? it seem like when i lost my first husband i was only 21 and men where every where and now this time it doesnt seem like i can even get on interested in me any ideas the dating sites on the computer don't work they talk to you a couple of time and then you go to meet them and they stand you up so what the point
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@musicman6 (2376)
• United States
5 Oct 09
Well, it's not so much, that you are the age you are, I am 60, and I noticed that when I was about fifty, men just didn't ask women to dance anymore, like they used to in the generation before! They seem to be more scared to ask, probably never did learn to dance, and just not willing to take a chance like the generation I was in! I play in a band, and I have noticed that people don't even dance anymore like they used to, they just stand there and listen to the music! I think you are in the wrong place, for the people to be into dancing! What I do, is I go and look for another place, where the people seem to be more up to dancing and fraternizing! I love to dance also, and I go only to the places, where I know there are a lot of people that like to dance!
• United States
5 Oct 09
yes i guess you our right i have beenn thinking about going and taking line dance class then i don't have to worry about them being there i don't what to stop dancing because i have lost 60 lbs doing it and i love the way my muscle fill i guess i feel fit again .