If Your Partner Wanted You Fat.....

@AidanKay (265)
Australia
October 5, 2009 9:04am CST
If your girlfriend, boyfriend, wife, husband or whatever lol said that he/she preferred you being fat...Would you try to make yourself fat just to make your partner happy? What would you do? No this is happening to me lol this is just a very random question. Actually thought of it because I am watching Family Guy and got an idea for a question lol.
3 responses
• Canada
5 Oct 09
I've heard of couples where the one person actually said that to the other. I think, if you're with someone, you should like them for who and what they are. You shouldn't be encouraging them to gain or loose weight for you. They should be striving to look the way they feel comfortable.
• United States
5 Oct 09
I totally agree with what votnoonpineapple said. You should love someone for who they are inside, not how they look.
@AidanKay (265)
• Australia
5 Oct 09
You are exactly right. Pretty sad that someone who is in a relationship would spend their time trying to change their partner rather than spend the time with the person they already are and enjoying that person. Trying to change someone's life is just so wrong. I mean you can help people every now and then and give people advice but not literally try to change them. Thank you heaps for your answer. Happy MyLotting.
@ladyella (145)
• Philippines
5 Oct 09
when i was slimmer, my man never had any comments or suggestions about the way i should look. he accepted everything that he sees and he is content with it. when i gained some weight, he complimented that i look better than i did when i was slimmer and he loves it because aside from not getting sick as often as i did before, he says that my face looks more radiant now and childish. ^^
@AidanKay (265)
• Australia
6 Oct 09
Hello there ladyella, Aww that is very sweet. Glad that you aren't so sick now. Good for you! Thank you heaps for answering. Happy Mylotting. -AidanKay.
@abanerji (1026)
• India
5 Oct 09
well, if the relationship is true and trong then physical appearence would not matter. being thin r fat would not affect anyone. this is my point of view and if my partner would demand a change in my physical appearence then i would not make efforts to change it... if it happens by fate then it is nt in my hand...
@AidanKay (265)
• Australia
5 Oct 09
Very great answer and I couldn't agree with you anymore. I don't like the idea of people trying to change other's. Anyways, thank you heaps for your answer. Have a Happy MyLotting.