Why I always have worse leam leaders and managers?
By subha12
@subha12 (18441)
India
October 16, 2009 4:58am CST
Why always everything in my changes for bad? I am now having the crippled, worse manager in this project. whatever hard work I do, it is negated. Plus he is also bend at finding fault at me. Just like today in the morning he humiliated me by saying and accusing me without any issues.It is very bad. when I tried saying something, he was just not ready to listen. In this company even escalating the matter have not worked well. I wonder why I am always facing these worse people.
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6 responses
@hankerChinese (205)
• China
23 Oct 09
I feel much sympathy for you. When you are working, the biggest trouble is your bad leader.
@ptrikha_2 (45523)
• India
19 Oct 09
Hi Subha,
What happened with you is nothing new.It happens with other people also.Unfortunately,such managers get away with a bad attitude since they have a good rapport with their seniors.
I believe that you need to carry on with your work and not worry since you are not wrong.I hope that with time that manager of yours would come to senses and behave properly .
Regards
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
17 Oct 09
It sounds to me like it is just your luck. I have the same kind of luck that you do. I got so tired of putting up with it in the workplace. I now work from my home because of it. It is soooo peaceful.
@whyaskq (7523)
• Singapore
17 Oct 09
God is giving you a chance to prove yourself. To prove to yourself that you are strong and capable enough to overcome such adversity. Friend, take the chance to learn from the experience and upgrade yourself intellectually. I am sure one day the soft skills will come in handy.
@I_LUV_U (2519)
• India
16 Oct 09
I think it is better to accept them as they are and try figure a way out for yourself to reach a certain comfort level working with them. This should be happening in every office across the world where people from diverse backgrounds, personalities, ambitions and egos huddle together under one roof to co-ordinate to make things happen.
As Edwin Markham put it: For all your days prepare, and meet them ever alike. When you are the anvil, bear - when you are the hammer, strike.
Best wishes and a happy, safe Diwali.
@red_amethyst (3518)
• Philippines
17 Oct 09
Hello subha,
In our life, we would always find someone like the person you mentioned. We just can't avoid people like that. You are very blessed because you are not like that person, and it is your chance to prove to him and to your other office mates that you are the best in your job. PRAY that this person would change and treat this person well, don't say bad things about him in the office, and in time, this person will change his attitude towards you. Remember, these are just trials to make you stronger and better.
Good luck
