Are you a run away bride/groom?....coz....I...didn't mean to do it:(

when i was in high school, i saw this girl, a grade six student then. so i courted her and we became sweethearts. she's the only girl i had twice or maybe three times a lady for me. we got on, and then broke up and then on again then broke. that's what i called, my three times a lady. when i got married with another girl, we were not sweethearts already. but she was the only girl i thought who could save me, from that unsuccessful marriage. i wasn't a run away groom, but i thought that if she really loves me, at that time, she will come to stop the wedding. i thought she will come but no. when we met again, quite some time after the wedding, we talked about the marriage and she just told me, "i would be there, if only you told me to do so, but you didn't." my marriage wasn't successful then, and so hers (my former sweetheart). there was even a time she told me that she wanted to come over to cebu and we could be together again. anyway, all those things were over now. i am happy now with my present wife, a native of leyte. and she is happy now, with her only son.

Hello my friend, It must be an incredibly Ridiculous thing to do.Hehehehehhe. Btw where did you go after you ran away leaving everyone guessing?

Well my dear, it was better to do it then, than be miserable, and get divorsed. I wish I had the guts to do it the first time around, but wasn't as brave as you.

It must have been really a terrible experinece for you dear jaiho. It must have been more terrible for the poor bridegroom. In my life I have witnessed the cancellation of my cousin's marriage, as he got fits just before the marriage. It was a horrible experience for us when the marriage was suddenly stopped by the bride's relatives. But my cousin got married afterward and he is now having a very happy and peaceful life.I doubt whether he would have had such a wonderful life if he had married that first bride.

i've not gotten down the isle yet. sorry to hear about you delima, but it sounds like you did the right thing. stopping the wedding if you didn't love your partner enough, before it was to late. neither would have been happy about it, but it may save a lot of money in the long run.

I have not yet experience being a run away brides, running away to my groom... but i do dream it many times..it look fun to me but i would really feel guilty if it happen to me..it is very insulting..so it is better for me not to make a promises or commitment when one is not yet ready to avoid hurting each other.

no i'm not... it is really interesting and exciting to read your story... to think that this kind of thing actually happen in real life as well and not only in the movies make me really amazed... anyway, glad to hear that you are now living with the person that you love... take care and have a nice day...

so you're a run away bride. well, maybe you have to explain to you're groom about your true feelings. anyways, you cannot force yourself to be married to a guy whom you don't love. Because if you still push through with the wedding, then i think you will have a lifetime of regrets. I hope you're groom will understand it and maybe will learn to let you go.

I've seen that in movies and never thought it can really happen in real life.pls tell me why did you do something like that.was it that you were afraid or you never loved your groom-to-be.

this is so sad...for the groom of course when did you do this anyways? you know am in this paranoia stage since it's two in the morning again. i am like thinking, what if am on that guy's shoes, wow that would have been a hit to me. i remember watching a pinoy movie where chinese bride run away with a Pinoy guy and ever since then he's been wasting his life and not even taking a bath. i guess am still dreaming for a good old nice wedding, sure i don't want to have that kind of night mare..if you did that own your own time, what more can be in this generation.some might even run before the engagement is formalize

Hello jaiho Mine is a arranged marriage and so there is no chance of running away. May be even if my marriage was fixed against my wishes, i don't think i will run away, because my family value is more important to me and any parent will take so many strains and faces several hardships to bring up their child and spend sleepless nights if they are sick and shower all love and affection on them. So by running away during the wedding time and put them into shame and face the public wrath is something which I don't like

Well aren't you a heart breaker...lol You need to watch that movie "Runaway Bride" with Julia Roberts an Richard Gere.