Did you ever feel upset and confused of doing anything?

China
October 22, 2009 3:50am CST
I can't find accurate words to express how bad I feel at the moment.It seems that I always have so many things to do but I usually don't know how to start to do them.You may say,it's easy:just be patient and make a plan,then accomplish your task step by step according to your plan.I can feel it in my bones that it's easier said than done.Maybe that's life.My plan is often disturbed,so I have to leave time to regain the perseverance and then start to work.With time passing by,I find it boring doing such routine.I'm upset and confused right now.I'm not a pessimistic man,but I do feel like such a loser at present.Could you please share your experience with me and do me a favor?Thank you.
6 responses
• China
23 Oct 09
Maybe you have got too much pressure……try to relax,dear,listen to light music and do some exercise,have enough sleep,then you can do better.If you feel your work is boring,you can find something interesting related to it or you can do it in a different way.
• China
23 Oct 09
I guess you said it.Sometimes I really feel bad confronting with so many tasks.Thanks for your sound advice!I'll try!
@leahsmom (338)
• United States
22 Oct 09
Sometimes you need to change your goal to fit your day. You shouldn't feel bad just plan your goals around the time you need to actually be able to meet them.
• China
23 Oct 09
Thanks,leahsmom!I think I've indeed set the goals kinda out of reach.I'm about to adjust it.
@dadoods (42)
• Philippines
22 Oct 09
it's simple you have to sort things that needed to be done accordingly.i think you are so preoccupied you cannot do things at the same time especially when you really need time to have it done. why not start with the easiest one before you go to the hardiest one at least you could have accomplish some of it rather than never to have one done at a time.think once before you do for the others.
• China
22 Oct 09
Hello dadoods! You're right.I think I just could not help upseting that moment.I was kinda out of control.Now I have calmed down and I can't agree more with you.I need to follow my mind. Thanks for your salutary reminder!
@buping (954)
• China
22 Oct 09
hi willingee, i can understand you for i have such a momet. and i think many people have those experience. you see, most girls would be upset bofore get married. and they are upset about what would happen after marriage. they are not beautiful? they would be a housewife? they would become old and old? i am also worring about this. shall i quit my job after marriage?
• China
22 Oct 09
Hi buping! It is commonly said that life is one problem overlaping another.But there's always a way out.Before making a decision,we need to have profound thinking over the choices.As I see it,none of the choices is absolutely right since each choice has its own advantages and the prospect is still a mystery.What we can do is to choose carefully,respect our choice , hold on to it and make the full use of it.
@1anurag1 (3580)
• India
22 Oct 09
Yes this happens many times. i think some time when we make a goal and plan for this and not able to follow according to that then i feel uncomfortable. i feel that i could not go ahead with the plan towards my goal and also during that time have a feeling that i will not be able to complete my goal ever. that really make me down every time.
• China
22 Oct 09
Hello,lanurg1! Just as you said,I do have the feeling that I will fail to attain my goals .I think that's why I feel so upset. Thanks for your sharing.
@bird123 (10484)
• United States
24 Oct 09
The best team isn't the one who always wins. Sometimes, it's the one who wants it the most. Ask any winner and they will tell you of the stairsteps of failure that led them to victory. Failure teaches us what not to do. Sometimes, it brings us into a new idea or better direction. Remember, few things worth while come easy in life. Choose wisely what you really want.Let nothing stop you!!! If something gets in your way, it is just an opportunity to learn! We don't have time for the what if's. Pick yourself up. Dust yourself off. Victory must be taken!!! GO GET IT!!!!!!