What will you do if your friend wont accept your sorry?

@jlamela (4909)
Philippines
October 30, 2009 5:16am CST
I had a slight misunderstanding with my friend today. I know I had a fault and I said sorry but he never accepted it and still mad that he stop talking to me. Why he cannot accept it when in deep humility I accepted my fault?huhuhu
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@Graceekwenx (3163)
• Philippines
30 Oct 09
Hello. I would suggest that you just be there when she needs you. Though it might have been a slight misundertanding to you, it might have been of big significance to her thats why she couldnt accept your apology all at once. it takes time to forgive anyway. dont rub your apologies too much on her as she would take advantage of your humble position. Let her take her time to accept it. and dont be too hard on yourself, sincere apologies are good enough.
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@jlamela (4909)
• Philippines
30 Oct 09
My friend is a male. LOL! Anyway, you are right,why I would insist my apology if he won't take it?it's no longer my loss. I will have to move on with my life and my endeavor.
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@Hatley (164654)
• Garden Grove, California
13 Nov 09
try one more time please, a good friend is a sad thing to lose.
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@jlamela (4909)
• Philippines
17 Nov 09
As of this time, we are okay but sometimes I fretted his coldness and insensitivity but there's nothing I can do about it maybe I will have to accept his personality other wise everything will be ruined.
• Philippines
4 Nov 09
i guess it's better to leave him alone. i bet he'll asked for help some day if he needs it, probably there are a lot of things in his mind lately. some men takes time to forgive, i dunno why but most are cool when you apologized.
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@jlamela (4909)
• Philippines
17 Nov 09
Yes I must admit that he belongs to the group of men who are stoic and cold and just shrugged when you ask for forgiveness and uttered sorry. He must be so insensitive that he just don't mind what is the implication of his callous character. There are times that I want to stay out of his friendship but then unsuccessful since he is always talk to me and ask some favor.
• Philippines
17 Nov 09
i think it's better to cut the bridge if he doesn't change. this is the curse of men for being so aggressive.
@Hatley (164654)
• Garden Grove, California
13 Nov 09
jlamela wait a few days and try again as he was too angry to think straight. maybe whatever was in his heart that made him your friend in the first place will again surface if you can talk to him when you are both calm and at peace. a good friend should not be lightly discarded after all.
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@jlamela (4909)
• Philippines
17 Nov 09
I always treated him as my closest male friend but then he always do such things to hurt me and I don't know why he is very strange. I think he only treated me a good friend when he is asking some favors.
@skysuccess (8882)
• Singapore
16 Nov 09
jlamela, First of all, I will have to ensure that I make it up or repair for whatever I have ruined or wrong doing to show my sincerity. During the heat, I do not suppose anyone would have reacted positively or reciprocating our apology. So, I will just have to let the other party have their space and time to get over it. After that, make up by having a casual conversation or catch up with a date. Most importantly, start talking and be willing to be on the receiving end. There are instances where the other party would like to be seen as being magnanimous or does not seem to mind, but still we should not take them for granted. Just do your part as the errant party and wait for the other person to react. Give him sometime and I am sure he will come around. Take care and have a nice day.
@jlamela (4909)
• Philippines
17 Nov 09
Yes I must resigned to the fact that he belongs to the breed of gentlemen who are cold and insensitive. Though there are times that I want to stay out of his friendship, he just seems like a waif that I can see him everywhere.