Have you seen a Couple,Spending Married Life without Misunderstandings...
By Baluyadav
@Baluyadav (3643)
India
October 31, 2009 9:29pm CST
I didn't see till now,there are even small incidents take place like differences in selection of clothes to big incidents like differences of opinions.Have you come across..
5 responses
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
1 Nov 09
there are no marriages without misunderstandings, for every human is not perfect. me and my wife are married for seven years and we have a good relationship. but still we have our ups and downs and also some misunderstanding. but we dont let this get in the way. we talk about it and we settle it all before we sleep. there are no perfect marriages but there are close to perfect.
@Baluyadav (3643)
• India
1 Nov 09
Hi,se7..that's true.this is my 16th year of married life and i know well.Some times i can say that without even small misunderstandings one's family life is not complete.The situation comes after a small quarrel,is very beautiful among couple.Have you heard 7 years itching in married life,if so be care because ,you are running 7th year of married life...lol...just for fun don't take it serious.
Have a nice time.
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
1 Nov 09
yes i heard about that already. but before we got married we lived in already for three years. so all in all its our 10th year together. i guess even its not the 7th year there is always like that. it is up already to the couple if they will work it out or not. communication is always the key for a good and lasting relationship.
@Baluyadav (3643)
• India
3 Nov 09
Hi,thank god,you have completed 10 years happy married life.Congratulations for both.Have a happy life in future also.All the best.
@amyson (3498)
• Philippines
1 Nov 09
not yet i think all marriage couple have misunderstanding,fights,arguments and other issues.so there is no perfect relationship if there is it will be no excitement.and that would be definitely boring.misunderstanding is just common to married couple and by sit down and talk about it.it will definitely solve,marriage life is hard but happy one because it test its other differences.
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@Baluyadav (3643)
• India
1 Nov 09
Hi,amy,it will be a wonderful feeling,when couple come normal after small quarrel and little misunderstandings
.Without those incidents,you assume,how bore it will be.This all in the part of the family life.Happy mylotting.
after small quarrel and little misunderstandings.Without those incidents,you assume,how bore it will be.This all in the part of the family life.Happy mylotting.
@sudiptacallingu (10879)
• India
2 Nov 09
Small things are not really misunderstandings…they are what I call the spice of life. Life would seem very monotonous and bland if husband and wife agreed on everything and there was no fighting between them. Also if you just agree all the time, then the various nuances of a person’s character does not come out and you miss out a lot on knowing your spouse properly. Its not healthy either…previously specially in India, we had demure wives who always had their heads bent at a certain angle to signify consent even before the husband could ask for anything! Those are unequal unhealthy relations.
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@Baluyadav (3643)
• India
6 Nov 09
Hi,yes,stupidta,small..small..misunderstandings are like clouds before rain in a happy family life.Without those life become bore.
All the best and have a nice time.
@protogenix (60)
• Malaysia
3 Nov 09
i also dont seen any couple or married people dont have any misunderstanding..even myself, i do also have a problem with my partner and often we just misunderstanding with the little things..
its hard to see other couple are having life without misunderstanding with their partner..eventhough its not the big problem..it also can be happened with the smallest things..
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@Baluyadav (3643)
• India
6 Nov 09
Hi,proto,so i need not say all this,because you had the the experience in enjoying the situation,how beautiful after compromising the misunderstanding.All the best and have a nice time.
@mavieserrano728 (670)
• Philippines
16 Mar 10
I have never encountered a married couple without going through a lot or some misunderstandings. It's very impossible that a married couple will not go through fights or arguments. Although, maybe for some on he early part of their marriage, they seldom have small fights or misunderstandings, but I strongly believe that misunderstandings, fights, or arguments are just trials to strengthen the bond.
@Baluyadav (3643)
• India
17 Mar 10
Hi,well said mavies,yes,i too strongly believe,that the love bond will be become strong after a false misunderstandings.Thank you or response and have a nice time.
