Do you believe in love at first sight?
By shambala82
@shambala82 (40)
November 8, 2009 12:20am CST
Thats the question... do you belive or not?
I believe, because with my boyfriend... I met him and I like him so much and so I....
we start speaking a lot and after a few days we were always together... now I live with him...
what do you think? or what are your experiences?
7 responses
@ilyzium (1197)
• Canada
8 Nov 09
Hi,
You know I don't really believe in love at first sight, per se, because I think of it as more of a chemical reaction in our brain, or lust at first sight if you want to call it that. I know when I first met my husband, yes I was thinking about him in the long run, but I knew it couldn't be love, and was plan ol lust!! Yes when I met him we were also inseparable and insatiable too! He proposed about 6 mos late too so although we did fall in love after about a month of dating, we weren't in love at first sight. Although he does say that when he met me and looked at my face, he knew that I was the person he was supposed to marry. I just laugh at him because he's such a romantic, and I'm more of the "non emotional guy" in this relationship.
@shambala82 (40)
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8 Nov 09
yep I understand... I know that's a chemical response, but I am a person... I mean a non social, I don't speak so much... but with muy boyfriend, the first time I met him... I talk a lot, I feel somethnig strange, and I thought that'd be really nice have a relationship with him, you know... then he tell me thatt kind of things like I was the person who he would like to marry... and I laught I put nervous... you know I never express my feelings...
@ilyzium (1197)
• Canada
8 Nov 09
You know I never believe it when you first meet a guy and they instantaneously talk about the future with you and marrying you. I've experienced that lots of times believe me, and i know it's just their other "little head" talking when they talk about that. Sure everything is also roses at the beginning of a relationship when people are new to it, they are at their best behavior and don't always reveal their true colors that early. I have a friend of mine that keeps getting hurt in every relationship because she takes that literally when a guy starts talking about the future so early on. I keep telling her not to listen to what they say, but what they do! Actions speak louder than words.
@babyania (161)
• Philippines
8 Nov 09
i can't really decide whether i believe or not. its like 50% believes while the other 50% doesn't.
but you know, i always see magic in love. LOL. yea, i believe in destiny, sparks and everything. hahaha. so most probably i believe in love at first sight, but because of the influence of some other people i can't really defend it.
what happened to you and your boyfriend is unusual. so all i can say is take care of each other and stay inlove. =))
@shambala82 (40)
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8 Nov 09
yep thanks... I know that's unusual, thats the point of my question... I know in the first time everything seems to go very well, you know, but in this case was rarely, because I have lot of problems, and sometimes I think why he support me so much in my troubles... I mean I'm with psichiatry theraphy because I have too many phobias... and I think that is too difficult to him staying with a person like me...
@armanseikh88 (211)
• India
8 Nov 09
it happens, i sort of belive in it and i sort of don't, somehow love at first sight in my opinion, is just judging by how the person looks, i mean some people just see the perosn, and they would be like "i am in love", and it's like you din't even know the person, just seeing the person for the " first time", so how can you you be in love? so, that's what i mean by i don't sort of belive in it, in a way.
i do also in a way , because you might just see that for the first time , but still you just know it, that they are the one for you. have a nice day.
@vincyk (198)
• China
8 Nov 09
Of course i believe in it.The emotion of human is of so many kinds so have a crush on sb when you met him/her the first time is quite usual and it's understandable.I have a crush on a guy when i was a freshman in the university.At that time,i often felt very excithing and hope to meet him again just by coincidence.But i haven't met him anymore for quite a long time ,and when i was depressed and decided to give up he showed up to my life and i turn all my courage to ask him for his telephone number and have a short conversation with him.Such a exciting experience i have though we hadn't be lover ,i also very appreciate about met this guy at that time.
@buzzjunky85 (65)
• Malta
8 Nov 09
I Believe in love at first sight, however unfortunately as time goes by I am starting to think that every love has a timespan.
