Are you still looking for that perfect girl or guy?

United States
November 10, 2009 3:12pm CST
do you mind finding them on the internet? i still haven't found my so called soul mate and know no realation ship is perfect the only couple that i know whose been married for 30 years that they had to deal with temptation of cheating. they had to deal with taking some time apart and getting back together its just when i see them it makes me happy because i'm like you two have been through so much and you guys still laugh and have fun together i want something like that. but i never had a guy that i really liked that i wanted to be around all the time. when i get too close to a guy i always want space they just become annoying to me why is that? does anyone know all i'm saying theres no one perfect guy or girl so will you settle for less just to be happy? would you settle marrying a guy who didn't go to college to be happy? my answer to all those question is maybe it depends because i really want a guy who went to college. but truth is if he didn't go when he was younger he can alway go when he's 30,.
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• United States
5 Dec 09
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@ladym33 (11008)
• United States
27 Nov 09
I met the perfect man 24 years ago. Well he is not a perfect man that would be impossible but he is perfect for me. It seems we were made for one another. I dated several people before I met my husband and I was not going to settle for someone who was not the perfect one for me. If I felt someone I was dating was not going to be the one I would break up with them and move on. I didn't believe in wasting my time or theirs. The older I got the pickier I go, but there was something about my husband that just held me captive.
@Fulltank (2896)
• Philippines
10 Nov 09
I am a happily married man right now and would you believe that I'm still looking for another girl in my life? Actually its not only me, but also my wife and my eldest daughter. It you haven't figure it out yet, we are still looking (or I should say) on the process of making another girl to complete our family tree. We only have one girl in a children of three. I my wife and me had decided that another girl would be enough to complete our powerhouse.
10 Nov 09
my advice would be not to go looking for a certain type of guy. People can be very successful even if they didn't go to college so you definitely should not judge based on that. I personally wouldn't go on an internet dating site i know of several people who have and they can be a great way to meet people with similar interests to you. The reason you find these people annoying is because you don't love them and are scared of losing control of the relationship and becoming too involved with someone you don't love.
@elrener (112)
• Sweden
10 Nov 09
Hmm...im not looking for any guy right now actually thinking to take everything as it comes. If i dont get married when im older its still fine by me :D Dont really like sharing my life and risk geting hurt