how do you handle boredom in your marriage?

Malaysia
November 15, 2009 9:31am CST
at the beginning og a healthy marriage, there is a lot of excitement and new experiences, it can be thriling being a new couple, but as the yaers go on, the excitement starts to ebb. the thrill diminishes. you have spent so much time together that you know everything there is to know about one another. inevitable, your marriage becomes boring. it happens in almost every marriage, the spark is gone and all that is left is boredom. this is dangerous and horrible. how do you handle it to save your marriage?
2 responses
@spalladino (17926)
• United States
16 Nov 09
A marriage is a partnership and every partnership takes work and communication. It's true that couples can become bored with each other but it doesn't have to be that way. My husband and I go out together regularly, we take vacations to special places. We make time for each other. Love doesn't always have to be exciting but special moments can be created.
• Malaysia
16 Nov 09
i get your meaning.but created special moments is really hard especiall when your family get the new members, there are lots of thing to make you trouble and worry, and all the times to eliminate the boredom of the feeling in your marriage seem like something not a big deal, the most important one is your child, your family , your career, your living but not your marriage, is it have a nice day^^
@eLsMarie (4148)
• Philippines
17 Nov 09
i'm beginning to get confused about your status... :/ couples should know that when they engaged themselves into the holy matrimony chances are they'll be concentrating on nurturing their relationship and establish a family. boredom isn't an issue there i guess people tend to make boredom an excuse when in reality they no longer love their wife or husband.