How to be a loveable person in life even though you don't have anything???

Indonesia
November 17, 2009 9:42pm CST
Some people are loved because of their briliant idea, beauty, talent, position, power, influence, possession, etc. But, how about if we don't have anything like that, how can we be loved in our life?
4 responses
@rg0205 (2636)
• Hong Kong
18 Nov 09
Love is not limited to a certain group of people but I think it starts by having a good personality and being good to be the people around you. You can be poor and without any great talents or looks but if you're a good person on the inside, you will be loved. People with all the talent, power, influence, etc, are not always loved because those things do not dictate whether a person is worth or not to be loved. It's what you are on the inside that matters most.
• Indonesia
19 Nov 09
you are right...
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
19 Nov 09
I don't think that a person has to have one specific thing about them that stands out that makes them a loveable person. I think being a loveable person is a combination of all of the things about an individual. For example, all people possess some combination of all of the traits that you have listed, and all people are mostly loveable. In my opinion, in order to be a loveable person, you have to just be yourself. The most important thing that you can do is not to try to be someone that you are not.
• Tianjin, China
18 Nov 09
Upstairs is right,love depend on inside.
@happy2512 (1266)
• Philippines
18 Nov 09
the character you've mention are not the only reason to make you feel loveable there are lot of other character that incorporate with it. You have to be sincere, friendly, bubbly, outgoing & you must be willing to listen to someone who needed you in times of trials. I know their are lot else but in my opinion those people who only make friends with those who has power has another advantage in making friends with them maybe some are sincere but some others surely have motives.