Do you think before talk?

India
November 18, 2009 10:22am CST
I was reading someone else topic in mylot and thought of asking mylotees about this. Do you think we should think before talk? I think if you think before talk, you wont speak your mind and heart. What I think is if you feel free while talking without thinking, you will speak whatever comes to your mind and your mind will be speaking your heart. When you do that there is no chance that you lie. :) I agree that think before talk is one way. To avoid fights in relationships. :) but when you think and talk almost 90% you will be telling lie because you need to repharse your sentences, put something which the other person should not feel bad about and so on. What do you say mylotees?
2 responses
@borhan (1345)
• United States
18 Nov 09
My opinion is that it is better to think before talking. By this your statements are well framed and you can communicate better. Thank you.
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• India
18 Nov 09
I also agree that you can communicate better and things can be framed well but will you be talking what you are actually thinking? Will you be talking whats on your mind and heart?
@redkathy (3379)
• United States
19 Nov 09
I disagree that thinking before speaking one will be lying. The idea of collecting your thoughts before you speak is a good idea. Thinking first gives us the ability to convey thoughts in a clear and organized manner, leaving little room to be misunderstood. Many times people misunderstand what we are saying and I believe misunderstanding is the prime cause of arguments.
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