single or married?

@anish92 (172)
India
November 20, 2009 12:27am CST
Would you rather stay single (and flirt with lots of girls) or just stick around with one girl and marry her at the first opportunity?
11 responses
• United States
5 Jan 10
Well, since I'm a girl, I'll use guys as an example. At this point in my life, I do not want to get married. I don't exactly want to "play the field" but I'm not ready to settle down into a long-term commitment. That's not to say that I never want to marry. If I meet a great guy that I feel "completes me", then I would be more than willing to marry him. I think that these things depend on your personality and where you are in your life.
• Turkey
30 Nov 09
I think it is kind of funny that you haven't asked the question to both sexes.
• Philippines
30 Nov 09
I rather choose to be single and happy not really attach by marriage, Not in the way to flirt but just a matter of time to enjoy self and those around you. I do not like to get married maybe just a companion unless i am getting too serious.
@Godmother (476)
• Indonesia
20 Nov 09
My son is an adult now, and this is what I tell my son : Go out and have girlfriends, that way you will learn a lot about women and the complexity of a relationship. (I understand that when he was a teenager, they show off to each other who has the most prettiest girl. ) But when you had your fun, there is a time to settle down and find a girl to be your future wife. The criteria will be different, you have to choose carefully because time goes by fast, and if you decided on the wrong girl, it will be hell forever.
@crazybubu (230)
• India
20 Nov 09
Hey i guess the first option is better.....stay single and flirt with lots of girls...The main point is i haven't yet felt that way for anyone so I can't say that I'll stick to a girl and marry her....If i do then it may be that my perspective changes...... but for the time being "Single ready to mingle" status rocks......
@happynin (87)
• United States
20 Nov 09
staying single or getting married depends on your age, status in life and responsibility.. just being smart in making a decision.
@agv0419 (3022)
• Philippines
20 Nov 09
Being single is also has disadvantage and advantage. I'm also single but if ever I'm going to find the right guy for me if we love each other I'm going to marry him. For now I'm happy to be single and I have freedom to do the things I like. Unlike if you are in the relationship you are in control by your husband or boyfriend.
@advokatku (4033)
• Indonesia
20 Nov 09
if time can I play back, maybe I would prefer be single male which surrounded by beautiful women's
@BART78 (2927)
• Canada
20 Nov 09
i enjoyed my bachelor life, yup i been to lots of relation and experience everything but when i reach 30's i was thinking of my future and settle down so i toned down my hunt and stick to one girl, luckly the one i aim was the one i gonna be with for the rest of my life...we tied the knot and no regrets for me cause i enjoyed my bachelor life before i got married..
@Drsunny21 (556)
• India
20 Nov 09
Hmm I would marry if i love tht girl and she loves me then ofcourse i ll stick forever wth her....:-)
• Philippines
20 Nov 09
i would rather be married to someone i love. :D but flirting with others seem to be a good idea. however i dont flirt XD. lol :D