Do you know how to deal with someone who is going to commit SUICIDE?

with her pshcail issue yeah i was younger when i hurt my back had a spinal cord injury and it totally turn my life upside down. but she will learn to work with it, and her being rape is sad, no female should have to go through that but i do disagree with you on its not your job. hate to say this it is now. you have to do whatever you need to do to keep her save from herself like my nephew came to me and said he want to kill himself, and if i sat there and didnt do nothing at all then he did i would be at fault for not doing anything at all, not talking him to admitting himself to seek help. so if you cant talk her into seeking help or telling her family so they can do whatever need to be done to protect her from herself shame on then, she came to you for a reason, having the faith in you and if she get upset and piss off at you for doing what needed to be done no matter if she like it or not, later down the road she will be grateful to you for saving her life. so yes you have to protect her from herself and if you dont then you are jusr so wrong and i could think of some other things too. tell her parents tell someone what she is thinking about doing, save her life

Maybe I didn't state it but I am not the only one who knows it, in fact a lot of people know it. I want to save her for sure but I don't think I can help her, as I understand what she has been through and well she's physically deteriorating by the second. According to doctors she is only allowed to walk for 15 minutes daily but she does for hours, she's fighting to make the best out of her life, but we both know that she's not able to cope with it much longer. I have offered my services to her, I said talk with me if you have the urge, you can always call me, even in the night, always, literally. But she says she's already talking with a lot of people anyway and she claims it doesn't help her. I know with who she's talking because I've been talking with the same people ( literally, I was like with who are you talking then? "Yeah, *name*","Oh I know him") I once spoke to when I was more or less like:"My life is **** so leave me alone" and why doesn't it end here. Those guys have helped me regain my life until recently, it's gone wrong again, I don't go outside anymore either, so if they can't help her nobody can not me, not herself, not her parents, nobody. We've made an appointment to have some fun next weekend, then I'll talk with her about alternatives...

Thing is, I understand the situation where she's in. She has severe physical problems which means she has to give things up and let go at the age of 18 already, and in combination with her being raped when she was smaller is just too much for her. I fully understand her, though I haven't been in the situation where she is in. But I can't say to her you shouldn't do that because yeah I do understand her thoughts and I know that when the situation comes closer and reach the point in which she says she's really going to do it anytime soon that it's not my job to defend her against herself because I could defend her for a day but who says she won't do it the next day? I would be really in complete confusion and sadness when she'd do that because she's a good friend of mine and we call each other a lot. We don't see each other too often because of my problems, so I can't help her even if I would want to.

Well, I know what the police is going to do, so it's no option, she'll be administered in the same institution I was in before and she'll turn crazy.

Maybe we come to a different country,there are differences of cultural understanding.Very much hope that you and friends to pay!With exchanges ,learn form each other!