It's hard for me and confusing..
By Loverica19
@Loverica19 (43)
Philippines
November 27, 2009 11:55pm CST
I am a happy person, and suddenly it changed everything.. I wasn't that spontaneous,and easy going with friends.. i don't know why I started being alone and i can't go with their likes.. I find it very immature and so young to look at... Sometimes when i'm looking at my pals all i can see is fun, it's all excitement. I know it's not a bad idea but sometimes I'm bored seeing the old routines... And I can see myself happier just being alone however there's a feeling that I missed them... What should I do...? Can u suggest guys?.. Thanks!
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5 responses
@free_man (7330)
• United States
29 Nov 09
Hello Love. I think I would find older friends to hang out with. I don't like doing the same thing over and over. I want new and exciting things to do everyday. I like going out and finding something to get into without others too. I like being alone once in awhile. Gives you time to have your own thoughts.
@Loverica19 (43)
• Philippines
30 Nov 09
Hello Free, Yeah a part of me's telling i should look for friends who'd stay even if I'm busy. Even if i will not stay longer as their part of company we'll still remain as friends.. Thanks!
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@krystalheart (842)
• Philippines
30 Nov 09
I agree with that free_man. If you think that you are tired with the all things and everything that seems to be same thing over and over... then go for some change in life or lifestyle. I think older friends are more mature in thinking and they are the people you want to hang out if you need some mature company.
@Apple3Cranberry (678)
• United States
28 Nov 09
Hmm. Happy. Not happy. Spontanious. That is fun. But I'm not very spontanenous I guess. So you are a loner? But you are spontanious and happy with friends? I don't understand. Well you should be alone if you like being alone. It can be good. Friendships are good too. But so is maintaining a sense of belonging, and if you don't have that you may get depressed. Depression is a problem. Therapy really is an option for some people. Especially if they are confused. But you are probably not confused, just having fun.
For me, too much fun is hard. I can't have too much fun because I get confused. So I need to go to therapy. This is probably why I feel like I don't fit in. But I am looking forward to getting help. I hope you will succeed as well.
Peace.
@Loverica19 (43)
• Philippines
30 Nov 09
Yeah.. we felt bored with same old stuff... maybe someday we'll find answers to our questions...
@robertx (150)
• Romania
7 Dec 09
I could be wrong, but it may be as easy as meeting new people.
I don't think it matters if they are younger or older then you.
As long as they have common interests, you are bound to have fun.
You can still have fun with your old friends,
but nothing prevents you to have more fun with others as well.
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
30 Nov 09
loverica you sound like you are maturing faster maybe than your friends and now they do seem young and immature. this happens often and you will need to find people who are more mature and think and feel more like you do.You could be a bit more mature for your age than some of the others and thats okay as you will find people who you can relate to that think the s ame way. you have maybe outgrown your friends a nd want to relate to people who think more maturely. good luck
@happy2512 (1266)
• Philippines
28 Nov 09
Why don't you talk to your friends & tell them what you don't like about them. Than making an alibi that you will not go out with them anymore. They might be wondering why you acted that way atleast they are aware why you are not going out with them anymore. Truth hurts but its better to be open & flat so that you can express yourself to them.
