why ppl don't like being stared?

China
November 30, 2009 3:38am CST
I myself don't like being stared and I feel it uncomfortable and I am sure most ppl have the same feeling. I tried to ask myself why I don't feel comfortable when somebody else stared at me even in a admirable way? I haven't been able to find a convincing answer yet. How about you? why don't you feel comfortable being stared? A lot of women likes to wear sexy dress in the public and I guess they want to show off this sexy body and draw attention but why they don't like stares?
5 responses
• United States
30 Nov 09
I guess when someone stars at you you feel like your being judged or atleast that what I feel like, sometimes I'll dress and act crazy just for the attention:)
• China
30 Nov 09
but what is wrong with being judged?
@Jas2999 (105)
• Malaysia
30 Nov 09
i dont like people staring at me makes me feel like i did something stupid or theres something on me hah i dont know xD It's okay if it's someone i like
@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
30 Nov 09
You have mentioned about sexy ladies who are wearing sexy dress, then they don't want to be stared at, i think the problem is with them. With me, when someone stares at me at first I don't look at the person, i just try to walk in one corner, and if she is not looking, i will try to see on how does she looks like, If i like her, i will also stare at her.lolkinda naughty
• Malaysia
30 Nov 09
Hi, Chameleon! I don't like being stared as well because I don't feel comfortable and I will feel awkward doing what I am doing at that time. It's like you are being recorded in a video cam that you have to be careful of how you walk, talk, eat and everything! Sometimes, it will also get me thinking if there's something wrong with my hair and face or do I wear the clothes the other way round? It's just not comfortable, that's it. I guess most women wear sexy clothes and dress to boost their self-confidence especially when they have nice figure, they are proud and just feel good about their bodies. I think they do like if people stare at them, but not too long. It's kind of freaking them out especially when guys ogling at them. That's what I think...
• Italy
30 Nov 09
I hate when people stare at me and normally return 'the favor' by staring at them myself. I think it's unpolite more than uncomfortable. I was told that I get stared because people like my body, but I don't mind, staring is unpolite both if people do it because you're sexy and because you aren't. It's just plain unpolite.