Your Lover's Marriage with someone (not you) - Your Reaction??

Something similar to this has happened once in my life. I was dating a man for a while and we decided to take a break mostly because of the fact that he was jealous of my living situation while I was at school. I lived in a co-ed dorm and that was hard for him to deal with. So, after a few months I decided to call him and see if he was ready to try it again. Well, I was absolutely crestfallen to find out that in the time that we'd been taking a break he ha

This kind of situation didn't happen to me before,but i am not sure it will not do.If it happens to me ,at first i will try my best to stop it,if i can't keep it from happening ,i will give a rose to my lover to congratulate her marriage, my way of dealing is very simple...what's your opinion about this?

It is always painful when the one you love doesn't share the same goals as you do. But this is often the case. Good communication is a rare thing between lovers, unless they have know each other a long time.

Thank God, I am SAVED.

honestly telling.if i see that i might die with heartbreak.i cant even imagine such a situation.thinking about itself makes me feel something is poking me on the chest.i would never ever want to go through such a situation and pray that no lovers ever would have to go through such a situation

of course it is something hurt for me...but I have to aware that he is not mine again... he has free to marry with everyone...

that was the case of my cousin. He dated his girlfriend for 3 years but the broke up afterall. She wanted to get settled but cousin wasn't ready. So I think she got fed up and she found someone else. My cousin then found another girl. His ex got married last summer and everyone was invited. His expression seemed like he didn't care at all. But from the bottom of his heart, I don't know. I think there should be a little bit of bitterness but there's nothing to do but to move on. When one door closes another door opens; but we so often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door, that we do not see the ones which open for us. - Alexander Graham Bell

Hi, arunmails. I would be hurt and very disappointed. I thought that I Would be the one to win his hand in marriage. I would feel bad a jealous. Not of her, but the fact that he was once mines. I would eventually get over him and my hurt. If I am already married to someone else, I don't need to worry about him, because I already have someone to love.

wow... what an unfathomable pain... what a suffocating sadness....what a loss. There is no one for us but each other.

i might lose control if i found out that my love or my boyfriend will be marrying somebody else. i also hope that it won't happen to anyone of us...

Hi! Ouch! This is really hurting. You entrust your life with your partner, pour everything you have and one day you wake up that he is getting married??? Out of my knowledge he's busy with his up coming big event of his life?! I must be gone crazy if this thing happened to me. It is easier to accept if he leaves for the reason his love fade away. but marriage is in involve? So hurting. Its feels like the world turned back at me. A feeling been fooled for the very first day we met.