love could be equal to devote

@bingchen (1119)
China
December 16, 2009 3:02am CST
my husband have lived with me for several months,he love me deeply,so he often finish all of chores and give me many free time to do what i want,he said that he can devote all of thing for me.so doing housework this is not important for him.the imprtant thing that he hope me always be happy in my life.i am excited what he want for me.but in fact,i have never love him,because i am nearly at 30,i need good partner to look after my rest of life.my friends often said me,i am cool to my husband,i should treat him well.i could not devote this like him.should love be equal to devote?i dont know,are you a person like me.give me some advice please.
3 responses
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
20 Dec 09
I think that in a relationship it is important for both parties to devote a large part of themselves to the other party. In the case of my husband and myself, I devote the majority of my time to our children and my husband devotes the majority of his time to his work so that we can be "comfortable" in life. Beyond that, though, we do devote a lot to each other. We are complete equals in our relationship and that is the way that I think it should be.
@bingchen (1119)
• China
21 Dec 09
thanks for your comment to understand family,although i dont understand family meaning at all,but i find that your experience for fmaily and advice is right,complete equals in relationship would make family more harmonious.
• India
20 Dec 09
Love second name is devote because the person you love the most for that you can devote all your life so that the love can be better in all words
• China
16 Dec 09
I think you are very luck. as a women, you should marry with the man who love you, then you will be happiness.