Can you hate someone whom you loved intensely?

India
December 17, 2009 10:18pm CST
Can you really hate some1 whom you thought was the rest of your life, without whom you thought you cant even breath? Well, I did and to think of it, I wonder if it was really love? That's because, I love my mom, dad, my sis and my son, no matter what they are or even if we get into disagreements sometimes. I could never think of not loving them even for a minute, but this guy, I thought I loved more than my life and more than anything, I hate him now. How could this happen? only if what I thought was love isn't??
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6 responses
• India
18 Dec 09
Yes my husband. But only when we fight. After our fights, I just hate to even see his face. After after a gap of 2-3 days ( during this period we do not communicate with each other), my feelings start becoming normal.
• India
19 Dec 09
Well, I guess that's just anger and ego and not exactly hate?
@DenverLC (1146)
• Philippines
18 Dec 09
Yes why not, Especially when love will be covered by hate and anger because of very serious and reasonable cause.
• India
19 Dec 09
Love covered by hate and anger, I guess i agree with that. Thanks for your response.
• China
18 Dec 09
maybe your love is not the real love ,and hate also isn't real ,the one who make you hate does not worth your real love,isn't it?
• India
19 Dec 09
I know for sure, the hate id real, and the love definitely not so real...Thanks for your response.
@lyssak (47)
• United States
18 Dec 09
nop!!! i've tried for 14 years now and it never happen. i steel love him.
• India
19 Dec 09
That's so very good 4 you....
@ongtina (1232)
• Singapore
18 Dec 09
Actually we hate a person because we love the person but he/she didn't meet our expectation and had cause us hurt. The more you love, the more the hate. It is a thin line .
• India
19 Dec 09
I agree with you, hurt can cause hate.
@1hopefulman (25927)
• Canada
22 Dec 09
Could it be that he did something that hurt you deeply? Or did you just wake up one morning and said I hate this guy so much? I'm pretty sure it was the first question that is the right one.