family problem
@sujathakkannan (90)
India
December 18, 2009 9:52am CST
Please suggest a remedy. I have a colleague. His wife seperated from him and lived with another man. They have a daughter. The lady now realised the mistake and wanted to join with her husband again. But the man is not ready to do so. But he wishes to maintain contacts with his daughter. But the lady does not accept this proposal. They are not legally divorced. It is now 15yrs of thier marriage. They lady parted from him when their marriage was 9 yrs old.
indian men generally never rejoin with their wives if the wife leaves them and lives with another man and come back to them. I do not know about other countries men. The man wants his daughter but not his wife. The lady tells he would be allowed to have his daughter only if he is ready to renew the relationship. Suggest what the man must do now?
2 responses
@sweetbali4you (359)
• India
27 Dec 09
Hi sujathak,
I think your friend never accept his wife but he accept his daughter and in this situation daughter's have no fault at all why she sacrifice for her mother's fault.if you accept your daughter really in heart so you try to compel your wife again if she not accept your proposal then i suggest you to go court for justice because she never give you your daughter without legal formalities.
@sujathakkannan (90)
• India
27 Dec 09
yes lady. he is doing that only. the woman is not ready to any proposal. but i dono what is in his mind? how far i can meddle in other person's personal affairs. i told him to visit court and some our other colleagues suggested too. but he is trying resolve problem by his own as he thinks it can affect his daughter's mind. he is not even ready to approach to get divorce.
@sweetbali4you (359)
• India
27 Dec 09
sujathak i think your friend is very intelligent and sensitive person i like his thought and you think about your friend with deeply you also a nice person. we are Indian and we think about 100 times to go to court.now your friend has only one way to for his daughter's he accept both of them.i know its a tough decision for him. but he have to take for his daughter and compromise.because compromise and sacrifice is name of life.thanks to join me a friend.may god bless to your friends life.you try to suggest him.
@OpinionatedLady (5966)
• United States
18 Dec 09
I believe your friend not wanting wife back is correct. If she left once she will again and vice verse. I do not know about your laws there in India but here that is considered holding the child hostage and is illegal to do. He would go to a court and fight it out legally. If this is a legitimate coarse of action there I would suggest to him doing so.
