I am in love with someone...

Philippines
December 21, 2009 8:23pm CST
I have a boyfriend but I am inlove with someone else. What should I do???
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8 responses
• India
22 Dec 09
It's quite simple really.if you really love this other person then why are you pretending to love your boyfriend.i think the answer to your question lies in the question itself.
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• China
22 Dec 09
two choices: 1.have two lovers at the same time 2.broke up with your boyfriend but i think you should chooes the last PS:you are not good girl in the world of love
• India
22 Dec 09
nice comment you seem to be very wise when it comes to the matters of the heart.
• United States
22 Dec 09
Umm... leave your boyfriend?? Seriously. It is the right and mature thing to do. Why would you string the your boyfriend along if you don't even love him?.. Do the right thing and stop seeing your boyfriend. No offense but this isn't brain surgery.
• China
22 Dec 09
hi, cristina, I also have this experience , I know when we feel in love with somebody, it is a nice feeling ,isn't it?but your situation......... er ,i am sorry I have no ideas, it should depend on your choice .if you really love someone, just do it. hope you can get your true love . good luck
• United States
22 Dec 09
Does that someone else have a significant other do you know? I think if you are in love with this other person and you are already in a relationship, the best thing to do is to break up with your boyfriend because right now, you're not being very truthful to him. Say if your boyfriend was going through the same thing; he was in love with another girl. Wouldn't you want to know the truth so that you don't end up completely falling for someone that you can't even have? That would hurt wouldn't it? Wouldn't you prefer to get over him sooner so that you can move on and find someone else who can reciprocate your love? I think if I was in your position, I would break up with my boyfriend because I don't want to hurt him by being in an untruthful relationship with him. If your boyfriend wanted an explanation for breaking up, I would tell him the truth that I like someone else. You don't want to keep this relationship up and have him fall for you and have his heart completely broken when you could have prevented so much pain earlier on by ending it sooner.
• United States
22 Dec 09
If you are not longer in love with your boyfriend, then leave him. If the problem is that you are not sure who you want to be with, take a little time from both of them to clear your head..."never leave the one you love for the one you like because the one you like will leave you for the one they love"
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• Garden Grove, California
22 Dec 09
cristina__2008 you know what you should do , do you not, you cannot keep both, you do not love your boyfriend then tell him the truth,sure it will hurt but if he finds out the hard way from other people he will be hurt a nd angry. do not be a coward, you cannot keep the truth from your boyfriend. are you sure about this other man? be sure first then tell your boyfriend about it be honest and kind as you can be.
• Philippines
22 Dec 09
If you're in love with someone else, is it possible tht you are no longer i love with your bf? Well, if you're no longer in love with him then let him go.